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    Having a "strong frame" doesn't do anything unless women already find you attractive.

    It's the halo/anti-halo effect. Attractive + Strong Frame: . Congratulations you're drowning in puss. Attractive + Weak Frame: Not as good, but you're still likely to find a lot of women who think you're "cute" for not knowing how attractive you are (supposedly). Unattractive + Weak Frame...
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    Is it possible to get women to respect your boundaries AND feel safe with you at the same time?

    They'd be even worse with me if I registered as an alpha. I mean **** I make them defensive enough as it is. Now imagine if I actually gave off "big **** energy." Besides, they seem to look at me that way without me doing anything, so it has nothing to do with how I act. Again, I'm not a local...
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    Is it possible to get women to respect your boundaries AND feel safe with you at the same time?

    It's been my experience that, unless you're a local celebrity, women will take you enforcing boundaries and standing up for yourself as an excuse to treat you like you're a dangerous woman-hater. I guess they're not entirely wrong. If you're not gonna respect me as a person, why should you be...
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    This forum is lowering people's testosterone levels

    I swear if I get a doctorate in this stuff and say that breathing lowers testosterone, I would have indirectly killed a vast majority of this forum.
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    Witholding sex

    I know exactly what you mean. Don't listen to these other guys who say it's basically over. Sometimes you need to let a dry spell pass. If it goes on for too long without apparent reason, then you worry. But you seem to know what it is so don't. Ask her what you can do to help take her mind...
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    What would you do if you won $100,000?

    Hire a financial advisor so that it doesn't all go away overnight. Also possibly see if I can invest in something that'll let me live off of passive income for the foreseeable future.
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    Viruses don't exist (none of them).

    You don't have to like it. That's the point.
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    Some musings about advice I receive about my hair and if I cut it for *****.

    I love my hair. I love how long it is. I love when it goes down to my shoulders and looks like a wild mane. But whenever the subject of how I can look more attractive comes up, women are always telling me to cut my hair. Never.. ever.. going to happen. Let's say I did take their advice and...
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    "There are no participation trophies in real life." Yes and no.

    It is an observable fact that the people who preach against the participation trophy mentality also value qualities of tenacity and "just do(ing) it." I suspect many such individuals are here. Instead of asking them to explain this contradiction and receiving answers that demonstrate a lack of...
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    How to hold your ground against other Alpha/dominant males in a suave way

    There is no "suave" way. That's just a concept people use to gaslight you into not standing up for yourself.
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    Is it safe to say that most guys are here are introverts im a intj

    I am. Thanks for noticing. If you ask extra nicely, you'll be shown a cash-grab. Isn't that right, Plinco? <3 As I said, mentally incapable.
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    Is it safe to say that most guys are here are introverts im a intj

    They're mentally incapable of it. I've asked socionics types for sources before and got jack ****.
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    Hostility among men

    This.
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    Is it safe to say that most guys are here are introverts im a intj

    ISFP (FiSeNiTe) In OPS I'm considered "FF FiNi SC/BP," although I don't actually subscribe to the OPS system for a number of reasons. Enneagram 4w5 but, again, I don't respect enneagram since it's basically astrology with extra steps at this point. Big 5 is OceaN, but I'd much rather it be...
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    Violent world

    Every situation is potentially one of those situations. All of takes is one person to get offended. How old are you and I'm the one telling you this? EDIT: Also being really good at getting your head kicked in because you decided to pull guard on concrete isn't badass.
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    Violent world

    That's the difference between me and the people you describe. I don't look for trouble. It just tends to find me.
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    Violent world

    I'll win and become crueler than the person I dethroned? That's what I thought.
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    Violent world

    Or what?
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    Violent world

    The Ubermensch's of the world don't give a **** though. We'll train for violence.. we will violate.. we will hurt and defend as we see fit. Your hierarchy will be a joke. Your leaders will be humiliated and silenced.. your sheep will be ignored as they should be. Hierarchy is only a reality...
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    The most famous husband of a 13 year old has passed away

    Why is the age of the 13 year old important?
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