When I'm in a relationship.. I'm always looking for ways it can improve. Inside the bedroom.. outside.. you name it.
The thing is, this perfectionism tends to scare partners away and I'm having difficulty seeing enough of a problem with what I do to change my behavior.
Because to me...
Being treated like a punk as a youngin for having traits that I'm now trying to get back.. being the scapegoat of my family because I wasn't interested in reflecting perfectly on them with every breath I took.. and my family's connections meaning that treatment bled into my relationships with my...
Every ****ing time the concept of learning from my actions and adapting was introduced to me, it was a way of telling me to be more passive, to not try, to not speak up.
This "every failure is a lesson" bull**** disgusts me.. especially since it comes from successful people.. successful people...
Most of it is luck. Wake up.
People who manage to "get ahead" without being lucky do exist, sure. But we tend to call them "criminals."
Tldr: Nietzsche was ahead of his ****ing time.
So you have actual confidence and you see through it. What then?
Congratulations, you saw through them. How do you control the situation from there?
This I fully understand. But I mean in the context of when men do it.
If you refrain from giving me actual advice and just spout some generic manosphere drivel, then I'm gonna "*****" at you. Suck it up.
Also the idea that men of the past weren't pussies can die in a hole. Have you seen how older men react when you walk past an American flag without jizzing all...
I feel like "insecure" is becoming a catch-all term for "is better than other people and knows it."
The boss who doesn't let empathy get in the way or doesn't have the patience for meaningless tact. "Insecure."
The person online who is openly judgemental of entire communities and doesn't give...
Basically. Putting up with things like that will only make you more sensitive to those things.
This idea of being "toughened up" by genuinely terrible leadership is a myth.
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