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He's right. This is the key part about spinning plates. If you have no chicks, then you might feel a little desperate and if a girl flakes or rejects you, it might hurt your ego more. Now that you're in a good place and you don't "need" them, it's the best time to get more prospects. You...

Well you have to put in some effort. It's easier to game girls because there are a ton of them and half of college is socializing. It's a numbers thing. I forgot how easy it was to game college girls until I went back part-time to grad school. You can't just show up and expect a chick to...

YUP! This is why it's harder to game a "stranger" than someone in your social circle. One girl that I was dating initially had no interest in me (or maybe she played hard to get - whatever) but when I was giving attention to her friends - our mutual friends - she suddenly became interested...

Nice report. I've had the "would I marry her" type of thoughts but I don't think it's AFC - you're just thinking that she might make a good LTR. If you start thinking "she's perfect" then you just need to take a step back and remember that she's just a girl and she has flaws like all others...

I don't think a girl will constantly think of you unless her interest level is sky high. However, if she has some interest in you already the best way to make her think about you is to not be clingy and call/text all the time. IF SHE IS INTERESTED, she will talk to her friends about you...

If she's trying to prove herself to you or to qualify, and you shoot her down, she might give up on trying to impress you. The goal is to play "hard to get" not "impossible to get". If she deserves a compliment I will give her one.

I've never been one to compliment - even before I got to this site - but there is a point where you SHOULD compliment. I know some users on this site think you should never compliment but I disagree. When she does something specifically for you (cooks something for you, dresses up super...

Yup I seen it. Just a lotta roast beef. Chalk it up to uniqueness of the vaj. If it bothers you that much just move on.

If she has something going on in her personal life I would just say pull back and let her handle it. If she wants your comfort she will contact you. if she pulls back for an extended period (1-2 weeks) that means its probably over, but you can reach out to her since you've been dating a while...

Almost always. Unless it's a really dumb text. I noticed that if I started to not answer texts she would start, so no need to start those games.

I was thinking about starting a thread just like this. The less you say, the better. You can't "convince" a girl to like you by talking to her. You have to make her want you more through your actions or by your absence (her hamster). If you're thinking about calling, texting, or chatting up...

11. A boy plays games. A man doesn’t. Sure. And "women" don't play games either.

I'm 5'9" and I used to be 210 mostly muscle but not ripped just big and I think I looked more intimidating. I tore my shoulder labrum and I was forced to quit working out. Now I'm 175 and I think I look better. Now I'm more "ripped" and I look slimmer in clothes and (most importantly) I feel...

Yup it's part of viewing yourself as the prize and having her meet your standards. I was totally into this one chick until recently when I heard she loves coke. Immediately turned off and I could care less. Weirdest thing now that I think about it.

Act like it never happened. Best advice I've ever learned on this site. Women will follow your actions/mood. If you don't care about it, she will most likely not care about it. Unless you specifically were ripping on her in that conversation. Then you're done.

To me, it means she would not mind if you approached her or said "Hi". No guarantee of anything else. Worth a shot though.

I agree with everything above. You want her to do things for you. Whether you "order" her or simply ask her doesn't matter, although if you ask her it's easier for her to say no.

She was higher value to you because you had to chase her. Now that you "caught" her you realized that she's not as high value as you thought. It's happened to everyone, it's just a matter of time.

No don't tell her. Especially in this case because you already told her that you were jealous. I think it's time to move on from this one. You should not tell a woman how you feel because they don't understand it when you do that. Just make her feel that way with your body language, eyes...

I did the same thing with a coworker before I came to this site, but she had a boyfriend. I met another girl the same day (a few hours later) so little did I know that ignoring her was the right thing to do. I basically had lost interest so I just didn't talk to her and when I saw her I...