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    Blocking the ex, sign of winning?

    This pertains to blocking, I've been doing no contact since about late January. I deleted her off everything social media and phone #s etc. The first few months were tough emotionally and physically because I couldn't avoid her due to work. After she found a new job I hadn't seen her and it...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    It's been almost 3 months now. My thoughts and feelings still haven't changed much. I've made no contact. About a month ago I did get a snapchat from her, but it looked like it was sent to a group and not just me. My only thought is, "why was I included" because I deleted her a few months...
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    Just sick and aggrevated with dating mistakes made need advice.

    I rarely post and briefly said its been 60 days or more since last contact from the gal that lead me here. I got a snapchat from her today. I haven't opened it yet. The first time I mention her in weeks, Blam. I'm curious though. Lol
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    Just sick and aggrevated with dating mistakes made need advice.

    I did the same thing this weekend. I was in Chicago all weekend. I'm not from there, but I was going to use everything I learned from here. My goal was to be cool confident and charming. No luck I even had inder on the times I wasn't out and had dates lined up that flaked. I came close a...
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    Quick Tips on using the online dating app "Tinder."

    I've been addicted to the swiping got quite a few matches and replies but almost all either just stop responding or unmatch without a word, it's crazy.
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    Quick Tips on using the online dating app "Tinder."

    I assume just your phone
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    Quick Tips on using the online dating app "Tinder."

    im so angry, I was on tinder, and I had one super like left. I don't know what they do but I used it on a girl, that I really liked. Well a week earlier I matched with a gal and within minutes she was showing me nudes. I was like "what are good things to say to matches?" She was like all...
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    advice please...

    Thanks fellas. I'm able to switch to Friday, but I'm hesitant to do so. Like you said fugitive, it'd let her know I want it more. It's either gonna be a goodbye and good luck date or I'll let things slowly whither away with a "see ya around," which I don't see happening without effort...
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    advice please...

    Me and this gal have had an up and down relationship to say the least. I did my fair share of beta and her with her share of hot and cold,crazy (that led me here). I feared it was too late, due to my clingyness, when she went the LJBF route. I attempted no contact several times, but she kept...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    Thanks! I actually saw her again today. I totally did the "looking at the cell phone" trick as she was heading my direction. I then went the other way.
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    Hey all, I'm new here. This current gal kinda got me thinking, so I googled her hot and cold issues, which was driving me crazy. That lead me here to an old thread about BPD. She fits all signs of everything that I read. I'm not gonna deny I was eating out her hand. So, after the last...
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