Me and this gal have had an up and down relationship to say the least. I did my fair share of beta and her with her share of hot and cold,crazy (that led me here). I feared it was too late, due to my clingyness, when she went the LJBF route. I attempted no contact several times, but she kept coming back.
Before I came here I didn't realize getting involved with coworkers was frowned upon. I tried to avoid her at work and usually by week two or three she sought me out (I think just for validation). This went on for three months or so while I did all the "better myself" stuff like reading the DJ bible, working out more, and getting my mind right.
Well the last few times she's came around we flirt and I'm totally blowing her **** left and right with negs etc.. (Which I never did). She eats it up... I decided to go no contact again on a high note. An entire month went by without us speaking. Although a couple times (about two weeks) she'd do some drive by tickle while I was eating lunch. Didn't stop to talk just to let me know she was still here.
Long story short, she breaks the silence by telling me she got a new job. Wants to tell me goodbye after work. I had to work late. She said lets meet up next week. I did the roosh game via text to a T and had a date set for tomorrow.
After work I get a txt asking to switch to Friday which I can't. What should I do? I'm tired of catering to her. Thanks
Before I came here I didn't realize getting involved with coworkers was frowned upon. I tried to avoid her at work and usually by week two or three she sought me out (I think just for validation). This went on for three months or so while I did all the "better myself" stuff like reading the DJ bible, working out more, and getting my mind right.
Well the last few times she's came around we flirt and I'm totally blowing her **** left and right with negs etc.. (Which I never did). She eats it up... I decided to go no contact again on a high note. An entire month went by without us speaking. Although a couple times (about two weeks) she'd do some drive by tickle while I was eating lunch. Didn't stop to talk just to let me know she was still here.
Long story short, she breaks the silence by telling me she got a new job. Wants to tell me goodbye after work. I had to work late. She said lets meet up next week. I did the roosh game via text to a T and had a date set for tomorrow.
After work I get a txt asking to switch to Friday which I can't. What should I do? I'm tired of catering to her. Thanks
