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It sucks though. I could barely sleep last night, my mind was racing with many thoughts. This is a girl who I've known for a year or so whom I've liked. She is everything I would want in a girlfriend and we share a great connection. I hate having oneitis and I hope I can find someone who is...

That sounds like a plan to me. Yeah, sucks though. I don't know what to think of it. I'm just gonna improve myself and not think too much about it. But we are all human.

Update: Met up for coffee this evening. And we had a lengthy conversation. Wants to take things slow and for now keep doing what we are doing. Just wanted to make sure we were both on the same page. So it wasn't that bad overall. Phew.

She just tried to call me to talk. I simply ignored her phone call because i was in the middle of guitar lesson. I'm just gonna do N.C. for now, back off slowly and see what happens. I was starting to become a full fledged AFC eating KFC.

Care to elaborate on how I lost control?

Thanks for that golden nugget of wisdom Harry. So did this approach work for you in the girl maintaining interest? Just to give you more insight, this girl is currently "lost" in life. She is in the process of completely overhauling her career and has been single for over 2 years. From what...

Thanks for replying back. That was something i did not want to read because frankly this girl i really like. I'll definitely try what you've suggested and I'm confused too because at the end of the night I got an extended make out session even after the talk. I'll try to flip the scripts and...

Hey Everyone, So I have been hooking up with this girl I like since late July / beginning of August. Well tonight, after I hung out with her she mentioned we should get together to talk about things on Monday. She mentioned to me that she can't give me what I may potentially want from her and...

Hey everyone, I've been reading alot about being a DJ and how not to be an AFC. We all know girls love the DJs. I'm just wondering about how to deal with this girl which whom I am currently seeing. I want to be a DJ but also show flashes of being a gentleman and do some nice things for...

Hey I really appreciate your feedback Gambler. That is some solid advice. We have made plans to go hiking next weekend but it's so far away I'm not sure if she will remember lol. We spoke about it on the phone. Should I wish her luck on the phone or fire a quick text (less AFc) before her exam?

So I have been hooking up with an HB8 since the beginning of August every weekend. We have real physical chemistry. I like her a lot and think about her. Ironically, you can call her a fwb. With that being said, she is studying for a major exam (LSAT) that is next Wednseday. I am going to be...

Sorry, I'm new on here. What does it mean to spin plates?

I'm totally infatuated with this girl I've been seeing for the last month. I'm starting to act like an AFC big time. I need to stop this cycle before I self destruct all of this and she loses interest. She is totally on my mind 24/7. I'm wondering if anyone can give me any tips on breaking this...

Hey everyone, I appreciate the people on this board. Been reading lots and learning. Here is my situation: I've known this girl for a year now, and we haven't really been close or friends per say. there were some random text messages here and there. 3 weeks ago, we are all partying and I...