I'm totally infatuated with this girl I've been seeing for the last month. I'm starting to act like an AFC big time. I need to stop this cycle before I self destruct all of this and she loses interest. She is totally on my mind 24/7. I'm wondering if anyone can give me any tips on breaking this infatuation with her and not catching one-itis which I may already have.
How to Break Infatuation With a Woman? Urgent Advice Needed.
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Spin plates, scientifically proven to get over oneitis.
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Date other women.
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Go to the gym, play sports, hang out with friends, do work, OTHER GIRLS should be easy to approach if you know that you already have a sure thing going
Or don't text her for a day or 2, make that a goal and you'll stop thinking of her for a bit
Or don't text her for a day or 2, make that a goal and you'll stop thinking of her for a bit
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Damn dude, I'm happy that you found a girl that you like so much. You better start talking to other girls asap though to save this one. Don't stop dating other women until she's your g/f. Otherwise you'll fixate on the one you like and your head won't be clear. When you talk to her you'll have low self-confidence and you'll think that every word/moment with her is so crucial and important. You gotta get your head right and spin them plates!! Easier said than done I know but it's your only chance. Best of luck!8daapple said:
Sometimes if I start to feel like this, I try to put myself into her last ex's shoes (you don't have to really know the ex...just pretend to be another dude that dated this girl). Then I start to imagine the type of $hit he had to put up with this girl in order to finally break up with her.
Then I instantly feel better and she don't go up on that pedestal.
I forget where I read this but somebody at one time said, "When you see a hot girl, think about all the guys who are tired of her $hit and want nothing to do with her in this lifetime."
Doing this has a powerful effect of "humanizing" women and you aren't as infatuated with them anymore.
Then I instantly feel better and she don't go up on that pedestal.
I forget where I read this but somebody at one time said, "When you see a hot girl, think about all the guys who are tired of her $hit and want nothing to do with her in this lifetime."
Doing this has a powerful effect of "humanizing" women and you aren't as infatuated with them anymore.