I'm totally infatuated with this girl I've been seeing for the last month. I'm starting to act like an AFC big time. I need to stop this cycle before I self destruct all of this and she loses interest. She is totally on my mind 24/7. I'm wondering if anyone can give me any tips on breaking this infatuation with her and not catching one-itis which I may already have.
How to Break Infatuation With a Woman? Urgent Advice Needed.
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Spin plates, scientifically proven to get over oneitis.
Sorry, I'm new on here. What does it mean to spin plates?Fly By Night said:Spin plates, scientifically proven to get over oneitis.
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Date other women.
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Go to the gym, play sports, hang out with friends, do work, OTHER GIRLS should be easy to approach if you know that you already have a sure thing going
Or don't text her for a day or 2, make that a goal and you'll stop thinking of her for a bit
Or don't text her for a day or 2, make that a goal and you'll stop thinking of her for a bit
If you want to talk, talk to your friends. If you want a girl to like you, listen to her, ask questions, and act like you are on the edge of your seat.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
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Damn dude, I'm happy that you found a girl that you like so much. You better start talking to other girls asap though to save this one. Don't stop dating other women until she's your g/f. Otherwise you'll fixate on the one you like and your head won't be clear. When you talk to her you'll have low self-confidence and you'll think that every word/moment with her is so crucial and important. You gotta get your head right and spin them plates!! Easier said than done I know but it's your only chance. Best of luck!8daapple said:I'm totally infatuated with this girl I've been seeing for the last month. I'm starting to act like an AFC big time. I need to stop this cycle before I self destruct all of this and she loses interest. She is totally on my mind 24/7. I'm wondering if anyone can give me any tips on breaking this infatuation with her and not catching one-itis which I may already have.
Sometimes if I start to feel like this, I try to put myself into her last ex's shoes (you don't have to really know the ex...just pretend to be another dude that dated this girl). Then I start to imagine the type of $hit he had to put up with this girl in order to finally break up with her.
Then I instantly feel better and she don't go up on that pedestal.
I forget where I read this but somebody at one time said, "When you see a hot girl, think about all the guys who are tired of her $hit and want nothing to do with her in this lifetime."
Doing this has a powerful effect of "humanizing" women and you aren't as infatuated with them anymore.
Then I instantly feel better and she don't go up on that pedestal.
I forget where I read this but somebody at one time said, "When you see a hot girl, think about all the guys who are tired of her $hit and want nothing to do with her in this lifetime."
Doing this has a powerful effect of "humanizing" women and you aren't as infatuated with them anymore.