A lot of dudes have been badly advised and there's a lot of misogyny out there.
Doesn't help that so many girls have let themselves go and become overweight / nasty though. Much as I love women, girls that let themselves go in this way are sexually invisible to me.
I just replied to this and it dissappeared..WTF
Anyway, I'm proud of my **** so no worries there! If it goes viral I'll have tons of girls knocking at my door!
:yes: :yes: :rockon: :rockon: :rockon:
This is a story of how I turned around a gold digger Spanish girl from a website designed to get rich older men to pay for dates / meeting hot young girls.
The girls on there purport to be looking for financial assistance in return for dates and meetings. Many dudes actually fall for it...
LOL @ some of the replies.
For me, alcohol messed with my state too much so much better off without it.
Approach anxiety can be affected by a whole host of factors though, the guy who said the best way of neutralising it by using sexual desire was spot on..But there are other ways too...
I just answered a thread where a guy was asking how to be "in state" as much as possible.
One often overlooked area of pickup is mindfulness. I used to suffer from depression and anxiety and consulted a CBT therapist. He taught me about mindfulness, which helped me greatly, and this also...
Good advice
Yeah hitting the gym, generally keeping healthy, keeping diet good, sleeping well etc are all important.
Another obvious point is how is your life generally, try to minimise stress and worry.
Another aspect is mindfulness. Strive for mindfulness in every part of your life...
I humbly offer my guide to dealing with approach anxiety, which many others have found to be helpful!
http://www.authenticpua.com/dating-articles/approach-anxiety-what-is-it-how-to-overcome-it/
I hope it helps for you!!
Steve
What do you mean, you "naturally" turned away from her?
Do you mean you followed the advice of PUAs? Don't forget, most of the time they're like the blind leading the blind, and often come from a place of misogyny or lack of experience themselves!
There is a solution to this : you need to establish the sexual frame as soon as possible when you meet her.
So, express intent, be clear and unflinching about it.
They need to slot you into the category of lover not provider but you need to be clear, direct, dominant, lead to achieve this.
Boots
It's not a huge deal , you're only talking one inch or so. Does it really make that much difference, i'd be surprised if that is the only factor to be honest.
Going forward, i'd invest in a pair of standout boots with a cuban heel of 1 - 2 inches. Great for congruent peacocking and...
A lot of the manosphere is great stuff, but I do think it veers a little off path sometimes and edges into the territory of women hating.
Glad to read your story though.
Steve
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