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The major problem is that I'm infatuated with this girl and I've had a gut instinct about this girl, that she's what I've been looking for. It might be pointless but I feel I have to tell her what I think because when she's gone, I just might be thinking about her for a while.

yeah, I talked to her after class. A little small talk, asked her if she got a nice wake-up doggie bath then asked where she was going. But she was walking like a race-horse on the last lap to the bathroom and said she was going to her next class but I knew she wasn't (lol). before she went in...

The girl from the last post that I didn't do so hot with came into work yesterday with her mom and I've never seen her in there before. I talked to her briefly, made some small talk about her dog since she mentioned it woke her up that morning. I can't help but think we could really click. I...

Appreciate the comments, guys...I know I have much work to do socially to improve myself and really bring out my true spirit. I guess since not many girls seem to show obvious interest in me, I panic and I need to eliminate those feelings that arise as soon as I feel them coming on. The...

Yeah, that's an interesting article and it describes me to a t. I don't feel like I'm all too intelligent but that article describes my unending misery in detail. Even today she gave me info. in the conversation that I didn't use to my advantage like I could have. I manage to screw up...

Have any of you found yourself in an absurd situation like this...like everything that should've gone right instead just worked against you and f***ed up? I think part of the problem is that I forced things to happen instead of just going with the flow. Even today when I saw the chick, I...

I'm wondering if I should give up on this completely or not...or whether I should just see how she acts tomorrow in class. I think I'll just ignore her and be as upbeat as possible. How do I carry on after the other day? I want to restore dignity and act as if I am still the man. Even if she...

Q-Unit, I think you're very right about the situation. I've actually read those articles before, the bad thing is I know how to do all of that but instead I f*** up by not jumping on her info. by asking her related questions because I know I could have sucked her right in if I did. Instead I...

Yeah, I'm actually not a virgin anymore but that's only because of one person. I know the things I say are off-beat and I really wish I didn't open my mouth and just would have waited to talk to her at class on Monday but of course, I jumped right in and I'm not the best at small talk. I guess...

Anyway, you guys were right, I shouldn't be talking to anyone at all. I saw the girl at this event that many of the people in my class went to for extra credit. On break, I saw her smoking a cigarette so I decided to walk over and talk to her. I asked her how she did on the map test yesterday...

Yeah, I understand what you're saying and I appreciate the comments but I can't just give up on this girl yet. I can't give her a break for three months because after this semester is over (a few weeks from now) I might never see her around again, who knows? Aside from how I am in person...

yeah, I know I can't tell why a girl does things and shouldn't overanalyze it. The cheesiness is just me, I'm a little off-beat and use it to convey my lighthearted side. But anyway, it just sucks because on any other day, she wouldn't have left that way. I don't know if I took a step forward...

Here's the deal. I'm 22, have never had a girlfriend...have had some success initially but the intrigue never seems to last. I've been working out lately and have noticed that I've become more noticable. In one of my classes, there's a girl I've noticed since the beginning of the semester...

Thank you for the replies, other than the last one, which stated that I would be dead soon. A friend of mine died a few weeks ago and I'm just now finding out about it so if you're going to reply, I'd appreciate it if you wouldn't be a tasteless @ss. Keep things like that to yourself because...

I appreciate the responses. Yesterday after I posted that long, drawn-out sob story, I actually got a #. Of course, the girl was friendly so it was a little easier than usual. She walked up and I just asked how she was doing then started amusing her a little and after a moment she sat down...

Ever since I can remember, I've been in what seems like the same exact position, the one that screams "I'm very frustrated with myself as a guy". With Valentine's Day coming up (the day that I was brought home from the hospital after birth) I think back to the last 5 Valentine's in particular...

Well, when I get into a good conversation and my aura is up then they usually do a lot of talking...but I think my problem is I'm having trouble getting them to open up because with this girl I can't get past the whole,"Hi, how are you?" thing. It really sucks because I imagined what I would...

basically, I feel like I'm letting all these women down and myself because I know I have what they want. I think some of them even see what they want when they first look at me but once I open my mouth, it's disappointing because the things I say don't always come out so smoothly. I'm kind of...

I've noticed in meeting women, whether casually or with greater intent, my personality wavers quite a bit. It seems like at certain points that I have some charm, the charm that belongs to one who can have most any woman he wants... but at other times I am not so well-spoken and probably really...

I could also swear the one chick drinks because one day in class she appeared hungover so it would be nice if all is not lost.