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No, she didn't make any effort to get me back, other than sounding extremely sad when I was dumping her. I think you are right, she is not interested.

She started to get distant, so I dumped her for another girl, as far as she knows. And when I dumped her, I told her that I'm already seeing another girl.

It makes your eyes bleed, because original conversation is in Russian, so I translated it. Obviously not every word can be translated exactly which is why it makes your eyes bleed. As far as accomplishing goes, I did accomplish something, it's treading the waters and see if she is...

You are right, it least it was better than what "Top Of The Game" suggested I should have written, don't you agree? She had low interest to begin with, that's why it didn't work. And I already deleted her phone number. I will go NC indefinitely this time.

No no and No. I didn't blow it. What you are telling me is how a pure AFC would act. You have a lot to learn man. I handled it pretty well, the way I see it.

Try not to walk where you might bump into her. In fact, I think you were subconsciously taking those walks just to see her. Please don't. Walk someplace else.

Thank you all! That's really what I needed to hear. I have walked away already, in fact I was the one who dumped her.

And you do realize that all those psychotherapists apply typical AFC stuff when they do family counseling? Just watch episode of Dr.Phill and you will know what I'm talking about. Dr. Phill is probably responsible for converting large percentage of normal guys to typical AFCs. So, yes...

So, long story short, I dumped my ex girlfriend about 3 months ago. Anyway, for some weird reason I decide to text her. Big mistake, I know. I just wanted to see if she still likes me. Here is how the conversation went after 3 months of NC: Me: Hey btw, I have a new classmate who has the...

Well for me personally, definitely not B. That's because I like athletic and skinny girls, but that's just me. Maybe it's time to find C? So that she is both Athletic/Attractive and with good history? And by the way, do you really think strangers should be helping you make your "major life...

It doesn't matter if a guy came from a "bootcamp" or not. What matters is that girls WANT to chase guys, they want the guys who are unavailable, the one's who are hard to get. Also they want guys who are not jerks, but who are polite but assertive, and by assertive I mean, saying "NO" when it's...

I am amazed at kind of stuff some of you guys are prepared to do just to join a fraternity. If someone tried to haze me, I would punch that prick in the f*cking face. I'm serious. Do you guys have dignity these days? I don't get it, why would you go through this stuff.

That's your major mistake. You are too available! When she asked you to hang out, you should have said that you are going on a date with another girl and you should have told her you can hang out but on next Friday. Why in the world would you say "YES SURE" immediately every single time even...

I guess it's been 1 month since my NC. Never contacted her once. Didn't even have the urge to contact. The only thing I did was, I just looked at her posts on social media and all of them are kind of sad and seem to indicate that she is having hard time moving on. So, that's that. But no way...

So, a guy tells you to loose the girl's number and you will just comply and do what he says? Now, that's even more Beta than the guy who texted you. Keep texting, and don't pay attention to Betas, because that's what Alphas do, right?

F*ucking awesome!

You shouldn't leave a conservative image of yourself in women's mind. Think of James Bond, he wears classic attire and gets all the women he wants. That's the kind of impression you need to have on women, not that douchebagy tattooed uneducated trailer trash kind of guy impression.

Looks like you found a keeper OP. There's no perfect woman in the world. Even if you find someone with straight hair, they may be a feminist or other things you don't want a girl to be. Trust me, I have passed on so many chicks that I thought were just not "perfect" enough for me. Haven't...

Thanks. I have been following this forum for a while now, even though I just recently registered in order to post.

I want her back because my feelings are clouding my judgement for now, since I love this girl. Anyway, I think this NC thing will help me realize whether I want her or not, if she comes back. Anyway, me breaking up with her was the only option left to do in my case.