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    HOW would you make a move if you're at her place?

    Catch the feeling. If things are going ok and she's into yours, go for the mouth. Kiss on the face does not apply to this specific situation. Do it right and she won't decline the offer... it does not have to be in a bold way. You can do it as softly as silk. Of course , if you don't feel...
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    Ex gf

    Grey Fox has the point... that's it.
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    HOW would you make a move if you're at her place?

    Hey dave! Dinner only? No video or tv or music, dance, going out, etc? A good way that usually works well is to tell her how much you liked the dinner and you want to thank her your way... Then you kiss her. That is all.
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    Girl calls me weird

    Hey dave "I am very unfamiliar talking to girls...I don't have a clue what the hell is going on in their crazy ass heads." A good way to keep a conversation going is just to find out what's going on their heads! Let her do the talk. I guess you already know that, don't you? That is all!
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    The Great Debate: Can a "DJ" get any girl?

    Personality and looks don't go separated. He knows he's fat and no matter how skilled he is, he'll face the limitation of the association. But, like everything in life, it depends on many factors and occasions.
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    My 26yr old doctor problem!!!

    Hey goober! What does her profession or status mean to you? She's 26, she probably wants to have some fun. The impression you've had is very frequent, but seems like it wasn't true in your case. She thought she scared you off! That is excellent! It means that she is really interested in...
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    Ex gf

    Hey Downrock! Seems like you don't want to get back to her. Then just keep ignoring her. She will stop badmouthing you as soon as she sees that you don't care at all. If you tell her to stop then she got you where she wanted: at her level. Show you're a man and ignore that kind of...
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    Should I act more AFC?

    Hey LMJamie! I can tell you from my own experience: Acting AFC is suicide! Don't do it! Just be her man. Keep doing what's working and watch the intimacy growing between you as you know each other better. That is all.
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    Tips on confidence...

    Hey jbbrain! Once you realize that there's no need to fear rejection you'll automatically get a confidence boost-up. Important: not just know that's no reason to fear rejection, but having the FEEL that the only possible harm happens if you don't try. That is all.
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    Turning the big 30, do I keep it a secret

    Hey Ricky! If she asks, don't lie. It would ruin any LTR attempt. That is all.
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    makin the move

    Hey Johnny! I think four dates is too much. Asking for a kiss is the dead-end. There are many ways to kiss a girl. Often looking her into the eyes deeply can just get you where you want to be. Of course, if the date went bad then don't expect her to kiss you. I date to have fun, to know...
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    On your last first date...

    Hey matius Man, you're really missing some fun and getting worries for nothing. The kiss close is an indicator of a good date. In my point of view, it does not have anything to do with ONS. ONS has to do with sex. I'll agree with you if you talk about having sex on the first date. That...
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    how do u take it to the next level?

    Hey Adr I live in the south, woman don't outnumber man. Neither they do in SP or Rio. What happens is probably what's called a tourist-bait, and you've bit it. I don't know where you are from or what you've read, but that information is certainly not true. "The Game" is pretty...
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    how do u take it to the next level?

    Hey killa I've been using something that's been working well the latest times: 1- Learn to "read" the situation. 2- If she's giving the signs or isn't blocking your way, go deeper. 3- Use the c/f style to come closer. (the hardest) 4- Bring something that allows you to kiss her...
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    Mirroring ?

    Hey fellow DJ's I partially agree with oreo, but I think it goes further. Mirroring that girl is surely unnecessary, unless she is already putting obstacles on the conversation. That's what happens: A girl like you described would actually be like oreo said. Now, she has an issue and that...
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    The bad thing about SS

    The bad thing about SS Hello my DJ friends. Here I bring to you folks what I find out every day… I’ve read around that SS can be bad. Agree. In fact, SS is manipulation, is a mind-f****** sequence. That’s bad stuff. Well, it depends on the situation and the perspective. 1. If your...
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    SS helps confidence?

    SS helps confidence? Hello DJ’s around, let me tell you just what I’ve found out. In fact SS can help you get more confidence. Why? Well, you don’t even have to use SS (if you think it’s mean or something…) but when you know SS you know you can get the girl after all. So, why worry if...
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    Is there anyone who can help me?

    Hey wildman! Like everybody else said, SS won't help you; I know you want some real help in this whole situation because I've been through something similar in past. So you are in love with a girl who hates you... Let me tell you this: - You have to stop your search for patterns...
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