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    Awkward Silence During Dates

    Make yourself a more rounded individual. You will never run out of things to say, if conversation is needed. Read diverse genres of books. Keep up to date on current events, take a few trips somewhere... and most importantly: Look for commonalities in what a woman talks about and dive "in"...
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    I like this chick, Don't know how to make a move!

    Your original post does NOT indicate that she asked you to go with her. It actualy speaks directly to your insecuritity because you are posting asking others opinions.It also speaks to hot/cold. Read your post... what part of reality do you not connect with here?!? if you read it, you...
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    I like this chick, Don't know how to make a move!

    Truth is recruiters recruit. They are padi to get prospects for jobs and recruit talent. Offering of tickets by way of asking you if you want them typically means you and her are NOT going together unless she specifically invites you to attend with her alone. I deal with recruiters all day...
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    If she says 'my friends tell me I should bring a different guy every weekend'

    Something I have always found to be a truism: In the beginning, when a woman has nothing invested nor has much expectation; nothing to lose... if you listen to them very closely and carefully, they tell who they really are. HC
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    Advice: Money or Pride? What's worth more?

    In situations like this, where emotions run hot and cold, one is better served to let the money go, cut off all ties, and move on; never looking back, other than to refect on the red flags you overlooked in the beginning. Learn from the experience and in the future, avoid them like the plague...
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    She says 'dont ignore me if we get into an argument you will lose'

    It all boils down to control... So who is in control here? And if control is a central point of a future relationship, then it will always be about struggling to see who maintains it. You should start asking yourself these questions: !) Is this how I want to live? Am I willing to give...
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    dating a shy girl, need help

    Based upon what you described, she is not very interested. Agree with DonGorogn that women are not shy... when it comes to getting what they want. You would be better served by analyzing her actions: No kiss, No answer on phone calls, no return calls, etc. In a nutshell, whatever happened on...
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    downgraded from provider to friend rather than lover?

    In my opinion, you are giving this woman too much head space. You are allowing her to live rent free in your mind. Not good. Take a step back from this and ask your self what you would tell someone else who is asking the same questions, and/or responding to your same comments. Need to reset...
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    Pls don't roll your eyes as you read this one - it'll help me in the long run

    Main point I want to make is this... actions and words must align. She was game to come to your place and then she flaked. That says that she was never game in the first place, or was "game" at that point in time. If there is a true interest, a girl/woman will do whatever it takes to make...
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    Pls don't roll your eyes as you read this one - it'll help me in the long run

    I agree with gaspipe. Good advice. I would respond with same and then NC until she contacts you. I would not follow up after 10 days. If there is any genuine interest, she will contact you. HC
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    Where i live people are negative

    If anyone states that you are stalking them or asks same , then you most likely are in their mind. Nothing good can come form this. Move on.
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    Need Advice... Please - -

    Let it go. She is not interested in you. Doesn't matter why; her actions speak louder than words. Move on. Plenty of fish in the sea... HC
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    Girls tell me I'm skinny

    "Girls will sometimes tell me, "You're so skinny!" or just, "You're skinny." But always with a big smile" 1) Sometimes they say you are SKINNY or SO SKINNY, not TOO SKINNY. Big difference. 2) Never lsten to what a girl/woman says, but look at her ACTIONS = Smile 3) Stop analysizing...
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    do time constraints work to get them to commit to a time by using jealousy?

    Okay, so I am going to post/respomd based upon many years of experience and keep it short and simple: 1) Analysis = Paralysis 2) Just be you 3) Let go of the outcome When you follow these three simple rules, you will know what to do by intuition. You will not have to ask. It...
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