If she says 'my friends tell me I should bring a different guy every weekend'

[big weezy]

If you're discussing sex with a girl and past history etc and she says 'my friends say why dont i bring a different guy back every weekend but i say i have self respect'

Should I believe her? Why is she telling me this?

it makes me wonder DOES she bring different guy back every weekend, she lives alone, I'd do the exact same thing if i was in her position so i can't complain.

I already said to her 'I dont care about your past, who you've slept with, by the time a woman is your age i imagine there potentially could be many guys but i dont care'

she then goes on to say jokingly 'oh there's been 150 guys' as she walks over to the kitchen with her back to me.. then says 'im joking'.. my response to that was ok neither shocked nor happy.

she also mentioned to me that she's only had 2 1 night stands and she felt awful about them afterwards for weeks but it was 5 years ago when she felt lost and didn't care about herself.

Also, she mentioned on the 3rd date that 'before we do anything you need to get tested'

this is the biggest concern for me.. we hadn't even had sex yet and she's already asking me to get tested.. that means she must have HAD something in her past?

 

[blueeyedgent]

Ever hear of the "rule of 3"?

When asked about the # of sex partners, divide the guys answer by 3, MULTIPLY the chick's!

0 to STI in how many seconds? LOL

 

[Aaron B]

talk is cheap

 

[Holden Caulfield]

Something I have always found to be a truism:

In the beginning, when a woman has nothing invested nor has much expectation; nothing to lose... if you listen to them very closely and carefully, they tell who they really are.

HC

 

[perseverance]

I remember going on a date with one girl who told me a story of her ex-boyfriend. She told me that when they were together, she had discovered her boyfriend met up with his ex and wound up in her bed in nothing but his underpants. Well she took him back and went on holiday with her friend, her friend cheated on her boyfriend while on Holiday and this girl was sitting there telling me how she could have cheated, but refrained from doing so and it sounded like she wanted praise for being faithful to her loser of a boyfriend.

Girls will say some really f*cked up sh*t and then this girl wondered why she never heard from me again. This was a first date and she was painting herself out to be an AW who wants praise for behaving like a decent human being.

 

[Groupie]

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[big weezy]

Talk is cheap indeed. People don't just develop trust issues out of thin air. She sounds a bit like one of those former hoebags trying to reinvent herself. I could be completely wrong and she could be the angel she makes out to be. Two one night stands in her life and she felt 'very bad about them afterwards'....that's what she tells you.

A girl who wasn't a slvt wouldn't feel the need to tell you these things straight away. In my experience the easiest girls, if they're looking for a relationship with you are the quickest ones to tell you 'you're the only guy I'm sleeping with' or 'I've only slept with X amount of people'. Just my 2 cents.

You make a lot of sense. She told me these things cos i asked her straight out, she's a really honest person (not in a good way honest.. just she is incapable of not saying exactly what's on her mind or what the truth is, i.e. not tactile in some situations) obviously i know she's probably had more but sometimes they're not always one night stands.

she strikes me as a woman who as she says is single and free to do what she wants.. i dont know whether she brings back guys every weekend cos she lives alone but i do imagine that she's had lots of hook ups with guys she's just sleeping with, who knows maybe at the same time but im definitely sure that while she's looking for a long term guy she's meeting up with random guys for dates and having a sexual relationship in the short term, guy to guy. it's hard to tell really. i can't really judge her for that. they may not be ONS but she's still seeing guys for sex in the interim.

once a ho always a ho?

reformed slvts and born again virgins i dont know if you can take seriously. also really if you think about it, even if technically speaking it's ok for her to be sleeping with other guys while she's dating me as i would be free to do the same, we're not together.. it's not really something you want to think about.

i made mistake of saying to her 'that when im seeing someone im really into and think she's special i dont see other girls on principle, just so that i can say that if it works out in the long term, i never saw another girl while i was with her, i'd feel guilty.'

this was technically my way of trying to get her to do the same, into believing my ethos and philosophy. might not make a squat of difference when alcohol and weed are involved and she feels horny.

 

[demezel]

it is always funny to read how chicks use word to say something else : " my friend say why....... because i have self respect" as always chicks always use their "friends" for everything. she wanna make you believe she has "self respect" so she doesnt have any.

-she says there has been 150 guys.... she is throwing a crazy number at you so when she tells you the real number you won't be that surprised because it will be way smaller than 150 so your mind wont focus that much on it(uses of psychology without really knowing it)

- 2 1 night stands... looks like a lie, way more than that and the feeling awful part is just to look like a good/used girl... if she felt awful she would've stopped after the first one... women will do anything to not feel awful about anything.
- need to get tested clearly means she had some disease before but i can be wrong..
this chick is clearly a hoe there is no question about it and like i say hoe today, hoe tomorrow.. if you wanna fvck, fvck and leave she is no dating material... but again i love being proven that i was wrong it enlightens me so its up to you

 

[big weezy]

so reformed slvts who used to fvck around a lot will still be tempted and still do even once they've grown up?

i always thought young girls were the types to sleep around and as they got older like in their 30s will start to calm down and not give away her pvssy as often or frequently.

tbh if she's single she can do what she wants, all that matters is when she is with you.. though all these male friends are definitely something to be concerned about.

 

[Iceberg]

so reformed slvts who used to fvck around a lot will still be tempted and still do even once they've grown up?

Some are tempted. Some aren't.

You don't actually think there are rules do you?

 

[big weezy]

Some are tempted. Some aren't.

You don't actually think there are rules do you?

i guess not, it pretty much sums up in an equation.. insecure easy girl, alcohol.. good looking guy with a bit of game, makes her wet.. she justifies having sex.

however is the problem with dating these sorts of girls is that because they have lots of male friends (i.e. opportunities to cheat) and are former slvts they fall back into their old ways? i.e. not loyal, and cheat.

 

[demezel]

however is the problem with dating these sorts of girls is that because they have lots of male friends (i.e. opportunities to cheat) and are former slvts they fall back into their old ways? i.e. not loyal, and cheat.

i think that actually depends on what type of dudes she dates.. i mean if she dates an AFC who is totally drooling over her and doesnt say sh!t when she comes home late because she is "free" then yeah she'll fvck all the good looking dudes that come up to her in a club or whatever. but if she dates a real man she'll only make mistakes when she is drunk :yes:

 

[big weezy]

I really dont know, I wish there was some scientific way to figure out from what she says or doesn't say to indicate who she's been with and how many.. i mean come on.. are we talking 2 dudes at the same time?

Is there any way to really figure out a girls sexual past?

 

[perseverance]

Is there any way to really figure out a girls sexual past?

As long as she is child free and disease free, who really cares? I don't want girls to tell me how many men they've been with before me, I just want them to spread for me and that's it.

Your problem is that you overanalyse and overthink situations, that's your downfall. You'd have a lot more pvssy if you didn't think so much.

 

[Aaron B]

as far as her sexual past, the hotter she is, the freakier i assume her past has been

i'm not asking and hopefully she's not telling...

 

[Warrior74]

She's a slut.

Even if her friends are saying truly that, remember "birds of a feather" my son. As usual with sluts, when they talk about getting tested, all you have to say is, I got test on my phyiscial last month, I'm very serious about my health. They will believe you. (mind you slvts worry about stds because stds ruin their reps), a nice keeper wouldn't have even brought that up this early.

As for a woman's past. Ignore it. Seriously. You don't wanna know. Don't be this guy. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tpQqH4H_SUQ

You are making the classic mistake of a. listening to what she says and b. taking her words at face value. But you're smartening up as you posted here for second opinion. Good for you.

 

[Groupie]

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[Alex DeLarge]

Lol.. I'm sure she also "felt really bad" about cheating on her ex-boyfriend with his best friend. Keep an eye on this one. Don't get your hopes up.