You seem to be lacking in social skills, including understanding introductory cues. Situate first near a girl you like. Check if she has someone with her. Gauge the room and her interests based solely on how she presents herself and how she interacts with other people. Ask yourself, do you...
I disagree that prominent PUAs had mental issues prior to become PUAs.
Neil Strauss would be a good example. Before Neil Strauss linked up with Mystery and other PUAs, he was an incel/borderline incel. That's unique because Strauss is a Gen X'er born in 1969. Incels were not nearly as common...
Like I said above, there is a LOT of nuance to this that you can only pick up on by being in situations enough to recognize them.
Sometimes a high IL girl WILL fall into your lap and you'll have to do next to nothing to move that interaction forward...I was once drunk off my ass at the local...
College Bars are just a great way to hang out with your friend to have fun. If you’re having fun the girls will see that, and gravitate towards your group.
Anyways, but bars are generally not a top notch place to meet women anyways. You want to be going to Parks, grocery stores, hobby groups...
Ok good, I appreciate that, it looks like we can have a conversation.
Not necessarily more than you, just saying I get laid a lot compared to most people I know - and it's because I'm constantly open to meeting new women, and I'm never overly invested in one. The reason it may seem I don't...
The classic movie "Wedding Crashers" (2005 release date) was made about getting laid at wedding receptions. I made a thread about that movie on this forum in 2021. People have been thinking about getting laid at wedding receptions for a long time...
College senior here. Finally grew a pair and made about 10 (pitiful, I know) approaches last night with my wing who is just as inexperienced as me. It was a bloodbath, we were getting blown out left right and center, and it really threw us off so we took a lot of time to lick our wounds between...
This has always been one of the toughest things for me to deal with in the mating environment.
I was making this observation as far back as when I was in college during the 2001-2005 era. Even on a college campus with nearly everyone unmarried, most people are partnered off in some way. That's...
The last time I attended a wedding, I was 14 (so I obviously wasn't looking to get laid at weddings)
Before you mentioned the topic on your post, I hadn't even thought of that (the possibility of a man getting laid by a woman he meets at a wedding). If I were to attend a wedding at my current...
Roosh was influential for me. I read "Day Bang" soon after it was published in late 2011 and it turned from a primarily night game approacher to a primarily day game approacher. For years prior to 2011-2012, I had been wanting to reduce my dependence on night game. I was coming up on age 30 at...
PUA community helped me get my first girlfriend so i dont see it as a scam - there are obviously a lot of fraud coaches out there but there are good ones too - the likes of Tom Torero, Liam Mcrae, Nick Krausser , James Marshall do give genuinely good advice sometimes and i've had wingmen that...
Ok, you answered my question: In your opinion, I should establish some connection/chemistry before revealing my fetish.
In college, I remember revealing my fetish on a 2nd date (and the broad denied me my fetish)
What was so terrible about your college experience? Homosexual experimentation?
Seriously, it's hard to give you advice without knowing what you're dealing with. The fact of the matter is that college is not a fun experience for most people. It's certainly nothing like how it is portrayed in...
Don't look back.
I can relate Corn, PTSD is something that can haunt you and hinder your growth & development through life if you let it. I myself have had to suffer with it for a lot of my life and the only thing that has helped me keep my demons at bay, and proceed through without falling...
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