There was a recent-ish thread on here about when to reveal fetishes that aren't dealbreakers.
I'm in the reverse position. My fetish is a dealbreaker.
Finding the right time to inform a woman is yet another hurdle.
I've heard mixed responses on when I should inform a woman.
Some say to tell her right away (so neither of us end up wasting our time if it turns out she's unwilling to do my fetish)
Some say to tell her right after we have sex for the first time.
Some say to tell her right before we're about to do our first bedroom session (so that way we'll have a chance to opt out of sex if it turns out she's unwilling to do my fetish, thus protecting her from a hump and dump)
Some say to tell her whenever she's comfortable enough to start leaving the bathroom door open (however soon or long that might be)
Lastly, some have told me to shed my fetish (which isn't an option)
I'm in the reverse position. My fetish is a dealbreaker.
Finding the right time to inform a woman is yet another hurdle.
I've heard mixed responses on when I should inform a woman.
Some say to tell her right away (so neither of us end up wasting our time if it turns out she's unwilling to do my fetish)
Some say to tell her right after we have sex for the first time.
Some say to tell her right before we're about to do our first bedroom session (so that way we'll have a chance to opt out of sex if it turns out she's unwilling to do my fetish, thus protecting her from a hump and dump)
Some say to tell her whenever she's comfortable enough to start leaving the bathroom door open (however soon or long that might be)
Lastly, some have told me to shed my fetish (which isn't an option)