jamesfromhouston
Senior Don Juan
I've been trying to improve my night game over the past year.
I've come to a few realizations:
1) As with game in general, focus on women with high interest rather than chase those with low interest.
Case in point: last Friday I was out with my buddies at a new club in town, I made 3 approaches. Girl 1 gave me a 10 seconds stare, our interactions went very well. Girl 2 was the hottest girl in the club but didn't give me any overt signals. Eventually I joined her table and started to chat with her. Initially I thought she was interested, she was very friendly, danced with me but after lingering there for awhile, she bounced to the toilet and came back cold and indifferent. I tried to chase her a bit but it was clear her interest was gone and it took me some effort to talk to her so I excused myself. Girl 3 was a girl who directly came over to me and started talking to me, clearly very interested and we exchanged contacts.
2) Club game is very much about detecting indicators of their interest levels and picking up the cues and responding appropriately.
For me, experience has taught me following:-
Interest:
- Eye contact (if the girl initiates or sustains eye contact with you, it's pretty much on).
- Smiles
- Physical proximity: if they come close to you
Disinterest:
- If they excuse themselves to the toilet
- If they turn to their friends or give their friends a look
- If they give a forced and quick smile
With that said, what are some other cues you've noticed? Perhaps those who are more experienced can chime in.
I've come to a few realizations:
1) As with game in general, focus on women with high interest rather than chase those with low interest.
Case in point: last Friday I was out with my buddies at a new club in town, I made 3 approaches. Girl 1 gave me a 10 seconds stare, our interactions went very well. Girl 2 was the hottest girl in the club but didn't give me any overt signals. Eventually I joined her table and started to chat with her. Initially I thought she was interested, she was very friendly, danced with me but after lingering there for awhile, she bounced to the toilet and came back cold and indifferent. I tried to chase her a bit but it was clear her interest was gone and it took me some effort to talk to her so I excused myself. Girl 3 was a girl who directly came over to me and started talking to me, clearly very interested and we exchanged contacts.
2) Club game is very much about detecting indicators of their interest levels and picking up the cues and responding appropriately.
For me, experience has taught me following:-
Interest:
- Eye contact (if the girl initiates or sustains eye contact with you, it's pretty much on).
- Smiles
- Physical proximity: if they come close to you
Disinterest:
- If they excuse themselves to the toilet
- If they turn to their friends or give their friends a look
- If they give a forced and quick smile
With that said, what are some other cues you've noticed? Perhaps those who are more experienced can chime in.