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I just read a few of the follow up posts. I'll repeat what I just posted, do not cut people out of your life unless it's extreme. Everything in life comes down to control. You need to control how much control you allow people to have over you. If my friends bail on me I don't react. I try and...

I've been in the exact same situation my whole life. I chose the cooler group to be friends with and didn't spend the time getting closer to good friends who actually cared about me. Things have changed now, but it took awhile. I've rebooted my social circle twice in my life. Once near the end...

Wow, thanks for the reply. I was concerned about the advice I was going to get but this was really constructive feedback. I have a few questions about your comments. 1) Thanks for the appreciation on my approach to game. I've learned a lot from this website and have been thinking of giving...

First off, I wanted to say I think this website is great. The advice is priceless and has helped me get a good handle on my game. I'm not interested in one night stands and am more interested in developing relationships. I've been seeing this girl for over a month now. All of our dates have...

It depends on where I am. If I;m out at a club or bar, girls are typically more aggressive and won't ignore me. I'll get a lot of eye contact and a few girls approaching me. If I'm out and about during the day, I'll get some girls completely ignore me walking down the street. But the girls...

Thanks for the responses. Trying not to over analyze is tough. I think that's actually why most guys come here. If things came naturally and they didn't need to think they wouldn't need this website. In the past I used to text too much because I was afraid of the girls losing interest. Now...

One of the things I've learned over the past few years of dating is learning to balance the amount of time you communicate to each other in the beginning. Too much can come off as clingy and needy. Too little can come off as uninterested. I think I've been doing pretty good lately because the...

Close. The below article was previously posted on this website in another post. I thought it was a great read and addresses this issue well. It's a discussion of statistics and how you interpret the results. http://denisdutton.com/baumeister.htm

Congrats on the improvements! I graduated about a year ago and am facing some similar things as well. Most of my friends are moving away to start new careers. I moved into a new city and haven't been meeting as many people as I'd like. I need to start pushing myself more. How did you tackle...

I'm usually smooth when I feel no anxiety and zero expectations of the situation I'm in. So if I'm shopping and there is a cute girl to my left and an old lady to my right I am simply appreciating the situation as is. I notice my surroundings and as a normal social and friendly guy I will react...

Mid-twenties. Recently graduated. Making some decent money and my career is progressing nicely. I'm investing in what the company offers in terms of matching (share purchase plan and pension contributions). I've been getting regular raises of about 10-15% every 6 months. Problem is I...

I rarely post but am an avid reader. I came across this post on another forum and my jaw dropped. I think it encompasses everything discussed here perfectly.

Is Colin the guy's real name or did you change it? Can you PM me some details like what province they live in, or the guy/girl's real name?