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Good point. Still have 2 Scotches to go....

The deceased was 81. Passed unexpectedly post surgery. She is 47. Ex is 48. She has articulated that she understands and respects my feelings but will attend the visitation. As she said it is in a church full of people, go through the line and contact me when she returns. A very good point...

So just for curiosity sake how would one do this with an I-phone without obvious access to a thumb print security locked phone??

Well, today is the day of the wake. She will attend but not attend the funeral tomorrow as she works. He did contact her and ask if she was interested in coming over to the house after the funeral service. She said no as she was not attending. As I said, not a bloody thing I can do about...

I guess what ever happens I need to be good. This will be a good indication of what the future will be with her. Things happen for a reason, might as well accept it and see how she handles this. Thanks again for the collective wisdom.

Because she is a woman....lol!

I guess that is exactly what I am going to have to do. Makes no sense grinding my teeth about something I can't change. She had an interesting comment: "Remember I am with you, not him. I have not forgotten what he did....." Still uncomfortable about the emotional overlay that comes with such...

Thanks for you replies. Easier said than done however. And the pathetic thing is I have no real reason not to trust her in the current relationship. Will man up and just let it happen.

The woman I am involved with dated this dude on and off in the past. Last time was 6 months ago when he ruined her daughters wedding by going off with some chick and doing drugs rather than being at the wedding. She ended it with him and we have been a couple since then. Relationship with me...

I love a fire crotch! Pictures or it didn't happen...lol...

Exactly. Funny how that works. Good luck.

No point. Just an observation. Proceed in life.

Son, when you get older I hope you remember this time when your 14 year old daughter comes home in tears. Good luck to you.

It takes time Grasshopper. We have all been there. The flashbacks never really go away, but the pain that is associated with the memories does fade to a dull ache after awhile. Don't panic, don't doubt yourself or the decision. I won't insult you by saying go find another and everything will...

Never would be good.

Just a suggestion but how about a monthly update rather than the day by day stuff which frankly gets old quickly. Thanks in advance.

How about the Mom who has 2 grown kids, known by first name at every local bar, good looking enough to be a **** magnet, burned by the losers she has chosen and will make damn sure you will never get close enough to have her feel anything more than toleration for you as a man.....

I think you post way too much.

Can't wait until you grow up and life kicks your ass. Then we shall see if you are "better than everyone". Good luck with that boy.

You have already lost her. Time to move on. The harder you chase the more she will distance her self. It is over. Sorry.