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As much as it sucks own the fact that this too shall pass. If you believe that life goes on even though the memories will remain it gives you more power to keep putting one foot in front of the other. The other advice is also spot on, keep busy, find a new woman, and go no contact without...

Try Africa.

You need serious help. Soon. Wow.

Been there. Done that. Got the scars that never heal. Good luck and hang in there. It sucks as she most likely was a best friend that you did all the adventure stuff with over the years. It does get better but takes a hell of a long time. And there is no going back unless you show up with...

We all have at one time or the other...it is called experiencing life. Don't dwell on it..learn from it and be wiser next time around.

Just be aware if you don't give her what she thinks she needs within a reasonable time period she will be gone. Decide which is most important to you...your "frame" or her presence. Sometimes you cannot have both. Good luck my friend.

AMEN to that....

wow....

And if you find yourself in a mutual relationship with them they can be unbelievable in bed! They want you to rock their world and will do the same for their man. I guess the only issue that may eat at a guys head is how did they get so darn good in bed....lol! But as one woman told me...."it...

.The idea that a man is "the prize" isn't applicable to any woman over 45 that has a few relationships behind them. Most of them are divorced at least once, have grown or almost grown kids or some grandkids. The don't believe the PUA bull**** that works on the teeny boppers or early twenty...

Just a thought meant in the most kind way, but I think you would do much better on a forum such as Love Shack.....

She is a different kind of woman. She is truly "alpha" completely independent, no ****s to give. Only really cares about her kids. Great mother. She is not a material girl in anyway. And she rode the **** carousal for most of her life. Her education level is way below mine. I can give her...

true that...

Thanks for the advice. She was on line again today according to brother. And I am having trouble breathing. The thought of her even communicating with another man makes me ill. I have it bad. And I know better. She has no compassion for me and never looked back when she left this...

Made it through a very long, sleepless night...One day at a time....

About a half dozen times..last time she was gone for 15 months...and one guy later. The fool part is that I keep coming back for more...forgive..swallow hard.. And wait for the next time. And I know she will not change. And she knows that my one weakness is the thought of her being with another...

Thanks I feel like a fool. Know who and what she is and continue to give her every benefit of the doubt which she surly does not deserve. And if she did come back once again how long would she stay this time? Not long I fear. Just emotionally a mess. Need to get real with my self and move on...

Thanks again. Just being a fool and feeling sorry for my self. I should hate her for doing this but just feel overwhelming sadness. Need to realize no matter what I do or don't do she will do what she wants. She knows of my jealousy for her and has used it to cut deep. And she knows it if I...

Thanks Live...I am in a self induced panic...posting here...and on Red Pill site trying to deal with the gnawing jealousy that is all consuming at the moment. You are correct. She has icewater in veins and knew exactly how and where to plunge the dagger. Mission accomplished. It is night and...

No fool like an old fool....just was told that my ex of two weeks (8 yr relationship) has a profile on POF using my pet name for her as her profile handle. I feel just gutted. Doing everything I can not to contact her. SOB I was doing ok, and now this just kicked me in the nuts more than I...