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Wow, I was and sort of in the same boat as you. This girl I was seeing was so hot and cold and I actually said to her flat out "what are you looking for, because if we are both on different pages, there is no sense either of us trying to change the other" She told me that sometimes she...

I have no idea what you can possibly do in your first interaction that I probably have not already done. I find it very hard to believe that feelings subside that quickly, I am not buying that.Especially if you just met them a day or two ago Thanks for your response though

Why talk to a guy act as if you are having a good time, say you are single and ask the same question, give you her number at the end of the night, say call me, and then you do, leave a message and they do not call back? Can not F'ing come up with a rational reason of why this stupid crap...

Puerto Rican Lover, I'm with you on this one, I believe she is a party girl and she has no F'ing idea what she wants, women's thoughts fluctuate more than the damn stock market, I am absolutely done pursuing this girl, I have had it. Thanks again everyone for the advice

New man, you read my next move exactly, we actually made plans to hang out on Sunday and I have no intentions of calling her to hang out.She knows we made plans and she has already bailed once. If she is interested she will call me, if not the hell with her, next! Thanks for advice

Thanks Rogue warrior, I see if I can get back on track with converying the I don't care attitude.

I have been dating this girel for about a month and up until just today I thought she was great and almost perfect with a few exceptions (smokes cigarettes, and she goes out with her friends a decent amount, weekdays mainly) I called her up yesterday and asked her to go out to dinner with me...

Thanks for all the positive feedback everyone

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I am currently seeing this girl and we have hung out a total of 3 times. The first time was just a casual first time meeting with the friends that hooked us up. The second time we all went to a few bars. The 3rd time was the first time that either one of us weren't drinking and we decided to go...

It's not so much about getting rejected. Would you go up to someone's house who did not have a for sale sign on the lawn and make them an offer? You could but you would most likely be wasting your time. If they wanted to seel they would have a sign up. You would have 1000% better...

I just wanted to say that this forum is great and the support everyone gives for another is unlike no other. Just curious what others think. I use to have no problem approaching girls who showed me that they were interested with a few glances or even a smile. For some reason I am having...

I just thought of something as I read this post and I think it does explain a lot of why we all have this same exact problem. I would like to state that I have had 3 girls flake out in a period of 1 month(All cold approaches) I currently have taken a break from approaching women just to regroup...

I have read a few of your posts chancer357 and I have to say that I am definitely on the same road you are. I have been on a bad path in life and I have not been feeling good about myself and I am so convinced without a shadow of a doubt that things will fail to get any better for me. I am...

Thanks for the advice, I will give it a shot and report back

I believe I am a good looking guy by society's definition. I work out frequently and I'm in great shape. Why is it that I do not see girls checking me out like I use to when I was about 5 years younger? I am 26. It use to be I would catch eyes with someone and if I found her attractive, I...

I believe that to be true but in public places you can never pick up if a girl has any interest in you in these places. Still wondering how it is done?

I agree first hand that going to clubs or bars to meet people are probably the worst place to meet someone, agreed, but, when everyone goes to a club or bar it is a known fact that people go there to meet other people. People are looking at the opposite sex with possible interest in them. Girls...

I am with you 100%. I am not interested in running around sleeping with girl after girl although, if that is your agenda then so be it. I am just looking for a girl who cares about more than just herself, her freaking looks and what others think about them. I have plenty of friends who go...

My oh my we are getting technical here. What women do from direct observation can be extremely misleading also. When a girl calls you back and talks on the phone and you make plans to go out, I am directly observing her actions. When she does not live up to her end I must then revert to...