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Thank you, you really made me think with that last line sentence. I will start focusing on happiness that is separate from involving her; to do my own thing.

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Ok will do guys. Another question: fine to start off with a hug if done right? Want to get over the initial touch hurdle and maintain light touching throughout whenever appropriate. I know there is a fine line before it becomes creepy. Oh @blackmack177 I'm in college and since its summer I do...

Ouch lol, thing is I hear mixed things on it. Some say for the first meeting you should do something simple (such as coffee) or activity related; goal being not getting elaborate or wasting money. I'm 20 and shes 18 btw to put some light on this. I personally like stuff such as frisbee, tennis...

Hey guys I'm probably meeting a girl from plenty of fish later this week. I'm very very inexperienced and this will be my first everything potentially. I was thinking of taking her to the park to play frisbee and afterward just sit on the bench and get to know each other more. Good enough? In...

This relates directly to a question I asked in a post I made. Was setting up a first date with a girl and she says her friend is going to tag along; right off the bat I said no way. Might be a lost cause with her now but that's fine.

I called to set it up and she said that her friend would probably tag along. I said no that's pretty weird, its a mood killer. So she ends up calling me creepy and I tell her I'm not down for a third wheel. We go back and forth through texts after the initial call and I give her a final option...

ARrocket I'm mirin' your advice, thanks! Gotcha, keep my eyes on the end prize and park it is! I was aware of the interview mode that is so easy to fall into, I will do my best to break up questions with banter in-between so I'm not blitzing her with questions. I might PM you soon bro if...

Hey sosuaverinians, decided to say screw it and try out online dating. I sent out like 6 messages, half of them were me buzzed saying very stupid things that I just doing to entertain myself "hey was just admiring your profile and was wondering when you gonna let me clap dem cheeks" :p . I said...

Hey all, well I decided to get out of the ****ing house and go do something today. That something was going to the State Fair (biggest one in the U.S. I might add). I went solo because I literally have no friends and the acquaintances I do have all got there own thing and wouldn't want to come...

Yes, you did help. I really do need to make it my purpose to keep on making a move until they say no; I tend to think for them when I should make it come out their mouth and not mine.

Exactly like the title says I have been torn mentally in these recent weeks. I don't know exactly what it is, I have been going forward socially and now I'm at a crossroad. To elaborate more, I have been trying to avoid social interaction. Reason being is it's stressful for me trying to make...

Great response Espi. I was getting at how I have been progressing and the next step was to get the heck out of my parents place. Getting my own place would give me more drive in daily routine; I can get over the mental hurdle of being a boy living at home with his mom and dad. I thought the...

I'm 21, going to community college and have one class left before associates. I will transfer to university but in the mean time, one semester. Should I get an apartment? I have been living with my parents thus far never moved out or anything. I have had an itch to move out and I feel that if I...

Hey all like the title says, do I need facebook? I'm 21 and it seems everyone but me has it. So far every girl I talk to asks if I have a facebook. To be honest with you I never did like myspace/facebook it really isn't my thing. Is it hurting me to not have it? I mean do they think...

Should I just go for the numbers in the e-mail? I'm looking for advice on how to go about writing this e-mail. Btw Gangster of Love here's what I was following quoted from my other thread. Like I said it sounds like good advice, which it is, its just that her leaving before class left out was...

Haha so I posted this thread a couple days ago and I need some help again. http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=168271 I was following everyone's advice today, I went to class and conversation flowed smoothly again with said girl. During break I got up to use the restroom and when I...

Great responses guys made me laugh and smile in a good way; very informative. It's really late right now but I will get up in the morning and go through and reread everything you all said again and apply it. Thanks again guys I really do appreciate the help. If it's a success great, if not...

Hey all, well like I posted in another thread, I got a job working retail to force social interaction and get rid of anxiety. Yesterday while working I bumped into a girl from one of my classes she approached me with a question and I answered the question but proceeded to make conversation...

Little background, I'm a full time college student that's socially inept. I blame that on being fat in high school, video games and not realizing how much of a loser I was. The obvious apply here of no "real" friends, virgin, etc. etc. That being said lets continue: Like the title says I got...