Ran into girl in class at work *UPDATE*

[DonChino]

Haha so I posted this thread a couple days ago and I need some help again. http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=168271

I was following everyone's advice today, I went to class and conversation flowed smoothly again with said girl. During break I got up to use the restroom and when I came back SHE WAS GONE lol.. *Edit: more details in post #3 quote in bold*

So I just literally started laughing inside my head, so typical... I was 100% going for the numbers after class was over as per suggested by someone in my last thread and fate threw in a monkey wrench.

Not wanting to give up I asked the girls friend where she went off to, and her friend didn't even know but gave me her e-mail.

So here is the situation, I have her e-mail, I couldn't "pull the trigger" on the number close during class. She doesn't know I have her e-mail, now this is a delicate situation in my eyes that I need to go about carefully.

Suggestions on how to write this e-mail out? Keep in mind this class is over, it will not meet again.

Just a note: I was very outgoing this class session as I was building myself up for the number close with the girl I'm interested in. So I talked alot with a girl that sits by me and in my peripheral I seen my target eying me talking to said random girl.

If I can get this feedback before I write this e-mail I have a good feeling about this one.

Thanks!

 

[Gangster Of Love]

During what break? She didn't go back to class? What do you mean?

When you needed to go to the restroom, that was the opportunity for you to get her number at a high point, and then eject, by you breaking it off. You hesitated. Remember, "He who hesitates, masturbates!" When you're new at it, you will do stuff like this, at a subconsious level, where you kinda chicken out and delay the risk part; so what you were thinking all along, go indirectly and pu$sy foot around to avoid rejecting, actually ended up happening.

Contact her, but avoid getting into an email, IM, FB, MySpace, text, type of communication. If she is not too eager to meet up with you, don't put too much into this one until you get back to school and see her in person. Avoid going back an forth all during your break.

 

[DonChino]

During what break? She didn't go back to class? What do you mean?

Its a two hour class, and there is a 3 min break halfway through. I came back and she was gone, she cut outta class early. She probably found out she was exempt from final exam so that was her reasoning.

When you needed to go to the restroom, that was the opportunity for you to get her number at a high point, and then eject, by you breaking it off. You hesitated. Remember, "He who hesitates, masturbates!" When you're new at it, you will do stuff like this, at a subconsious level, where you kinda chicken out and delay the risk part; so what you were thinking all along, go indirectly and pu$sy foot around to avoid rejecting, actually ended up happening.

I was following someone's advice on asking AFTER class while walking with her. I think the advice was sound. I was following through with getting her number immediately after class let out. I was exhilarated in a good way, I was not hesitating. Was committed to it. It was only due to the circumstance of her not being in the class till the end that messed things up.

Contact her, but avoid getting into an email, IM, FB, MySpace, text, type of communication. If she is not too eager to meet up with you, don't put too much into this one until you get back to school and see her in person. Avoid going back an forth all during your break.

Should I just go for the numbers in the e-mail? I'm looking for advice on how to go about writing this e-mail.

Btw Gangster of Love here's what I was following quoted from my other thread.

Yah man dont give her your number. Be a man get and her number. DO NOT ASK "CAN I HAVE YOUR NUMBER". Sit next to her start a conversation and than at the end of the class walk with her and get her number by saying, "You seem pretty cool let me get your number and we will hangout some time".

Or "We should hangout sometime. What is your number?"

I would advise you to ask for the number while walking with her from class and not in the classroom where everyone can hear. It will make it ackword especially if she is the shy type.

I have gotten 7 numbers in college and all of them came from girls in classroom. I usually say .. "You seem cool, whats your number we should study sometime" .. bam haven't been rejected yet.

Like I said it sounds like good advice, which it is, its just that her leaving before class left out was out of the blue.

 

[Gangster Of Love]

I gotta go work now. I'll be back later tonight. What's your rush to send that email? Just wait a couple of days. Well, if you haven't alerady sent it, I can help you with what to write.

That's the thing, you waited, hesitated, for the end of the class, when the moment was there for you to take. You have to be able to live in the moment when opportunity presents itself to you. That might have been the best and possibly only chance.

Anyway, I'll get back on later. Let us know what you do/did.