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I've just been under the impression that it's important to give off the "I want to sleep with you" vibe (not in the sense that you are an animal and that's all you can think about) to keep yourself out of the FriendZone.... Someone asked about the link. It's on sosuave.com, front page...

This is an excerpt from a Doc Love article on the front page of sosuave.com. My question ... what the fvck happened to kino? Doesn't that sound like an AFC dating style? I thought you were supposed to establish your sexual attraction early on? Comments?

Alright. Good. :)

Excuse me??

Like The Greatest said, it's all about balance. There is a time to tease her or raise her IL, then there comes a time when you need to quit playing games and seal the deal. Only you can truly judge when that time is.

Camaros blow. I can't think of a more generic "sports car."

I made a mistake...I didn't read your post closely enough. I didn't realize that she told you to call her the next day. I would've done it too, though some of the posters here would disagree with that move. In my opinion, you may just want to forget about her and see what happens. She...

PS, My friend Stacey can't get enough of the large black guy type. :) I tease her all the time about it... she goes to a local Bible college, but she's always gettin' it from some Jamaican guys here. Women, huh? :)

If you do decide to call her again, wait about a week. That was your mistake the first time.... you called her way too soon.

I wouldn't classify myself as an "expert," but I've had a lot of success getting women wet with nothing but words. Just for the sheer hell of it (and btw, this stuff does NOT substitute for normal, healthy, physical interaction with women), I talked one "church girl" into sending me XXX...

Right on. Women feel like a slut if they say, "I want to have sex with you," but they don't feel like one if they give you some subtle hint and you take it. It's weird, I know, but that's how they work. :)

Good thinking telling her friends "no." It boosts the intrigue (and thus, IL) while at the same time showing that you have a backbone.

Sorry, I meant to delete my response but... couldn't find a link for that.

Good point. Some women LIKE that whole boy band look. Some women like a gruff look. Others like large black men. *lol* I try to strike a balance in that I try to be fashionable and have a "trendy" hairstyle, but I also act masculine and usually keep facial hair. Whatever works.

It's all about balance. There is a time and a place for both strategies. Some women offer themselves to you, and you have to have the balls to just seize the opportunity. Other women will be turned off by aggression. I've found that if you develop a reputation as someone who is...

Yes, it's fun. It's fun to flirt with women, to be confident and not give a fvck whether they reject you or not. Women are FUN! The interesting thing is, if you don't give a fvck, it shows in your attitude and you WON'T get rejected, because they can sense that you are not desperate and don't...

Yes, it's fun. It's fun to flirt with women, to be confident and not give a fvck whether they reject you or not. The interesting thing is, if you don't give a fvck, it shows in your attitude and you WON'T get rejected, because they can sense that you are not desperate and don't "need" them...

That's a great way to find the positive side of this. You dumping all these women is building up your ability to do so (as some guys can't bring themselves to dump girls who fvck with them). The REAL benefit is that you've become so used to it that you are going to project the "I don't need...

bb, Sounds like you've received some awesome advice. As someone who has been the "class clown" and naturally funny all of my life, I have to reiterate that C&F is something that will emanate from your ATTITUDE, it isn't a technique you learn on a tape somewhere. It's hard to fake...

Exactly. WTF are you waiting on? Don't ask her out, tell her that you two need to go out sometime. "Hard to get" is very good for those women that try to play mind games with you, or those that may take a little prep work first, but if a woman's IL is high enough, you need to just be...