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My stats: weight: 174 lb height: 6'0 waist: 33 inches Most of my body fat is concentrated in my stomach/chest area. MUST LOSE IT.

When I become a DJ I let u know. :D Btw, what uni r u planning to join? UQAM?

I'm not sure, but I think u missed the point. Even saying a simple sentence to a girl requires ALOT of effort from my side. So I'm not talking about creating attraction or being a challenge by being C+F. Right now,I'm simply trying to get over this fear. The fear of talking, not even...

Microphone Fiend, I know, it sux big time. I thought to myself "damn, this guy has some confidence cuz he approached me and really asked me if I wanna go with him to pick up chicks". I just talked to him like any usual guy, I basically didn't show any interest.. It's the fu(king 3rd time...

becker, Yeah, I guess u were right. Maybe the club is a stupid idea for someone like me, who never really approached a chick in his whole fu(king life. Judging from yesterday, most chicks that go to clubs seem very slutty and overly confident. One thingis for sure tho, I'm not going alone to...

I just came back from the club. Staid there for like 60-70 mins. I saw I couldn'tmake any approaches while being sober (I decided that I won't drink booze,although like 80% of the ppl were drinking). Sat, looked at the ppl, tried to dancea little bit without any luck, smoked some cigs, examined...

Chaos-Knight, Thnx for some good advices. It is funny, but when I dance, I stare at the ground most of the time. Eye contact is something I try to do more often. Guess its all about being confident... It is good to know that there are some ppl who go to clubs alone and think its ok. Most...

I think I follow this advice today. Not only while dancing, but while talking to chicks. I guess its called "pretend you're confident". Its not that I dont have moves, it is mainly while dancing with chicks. When I go to after-hours clubs where they play Trance, I can get in the mood right...

Mcgill parties sound interesting indeed. Is it hard to get in if ur not a Mcgill student? I never heard about Time club. As far as I know, La Boom is the best all around club nowdays. Most ppl seem to agree. Extreme is also good. I think that for clubs, a good idea would be just...

Its gonna be somewhat hard. When I'm going with friends its easier for sure. Like yesterday, I went to a pub with some friends. We went to dance (I was sober). I could dance because I was dancing near my friend; but... there was a group of 5 chicks that was dancing near us. Neither me, nor...

YO. I was planning to go to a club by myself again. The deal is, when I don't drink, I always end up sitting and smoking and looking at all the action on the dance floor and basically feeling angry at myself for being soooo afraid to go out there and dance. At the same time, when I drink, I...

MickoZ, I know why most of them didn't reply. U r 100% right. My HI wasn't too convincing and most of the girls I approached were alone walking in the hallways like they were rushing and had a cause. I'm just a stranger, they will never think that I would say HI. But my point of view is that...

OK. MISSION ACCOMPLISHED. I have to say, it really required going out of my comofrt zone. I came all ready and confident. The first time I tried to do it I simply couldn't. It required about an hour of walking around thinking and drinking an espresso to wake myself up. lol Eye contact...

Thnx for the support ppl! Came for some last minute motivation, but I realized that all the motivation needed can be acheived by just looking at my pathetic life so far. Should be back in around 2-3 hours to post results. Off I go.

OK. After some long period of self pitty and crying about my worthless life and having social anxiety. Plus, the big fear of approaching women and shiat like being 21 and not having a gf or female friends made me realize one thing: I CAN'T SIT AND WAIT IDLY FOR OPPORTUNITIES AND A BETTER...

AMAZING STUFF!!!

Yeah. Guess he ain't got male tits yet. Guess he ain't got girl problems either ;) My stats are not current so I will measure myself tomorrow and post then. I don't think I'm fat. I just have a belly, u know. All other body parts are ok and arms are muscular. Just the belly and chest...

YO. For the past year I have really neglected my body due to depression. That is meaning I ate LOTS of junk food and didn't exercise. Right now, I noticed that my chest began to pop up in a non muscular way. :p + I have a belly. I started a diet and I started to avoid fats (sweets...

Yeah, Eaton Centre has some nice saleswomen. My goal now is going to malls and talking to them and ask questions to become more comfortable. Its good cuz the can't "reject" u, they can't kick u out of the store. Now that I think about it, seems like a good way to build confidence. I agree...

Thnx for the replies. :D There's not much to conclude. I think, or I should I say I KNOW that theonly method to beat this $hit is through exposure to social situations. Meaning talking to strangers as much as I can (sales people, ppl with whom I stand in line in the pharmacie, ppl who...