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    Today I'm Single...

    Thanks Airwarrior...it's funny (in a way) when I was 18...I got seriously addicted to heroin. Had to drop out of college, in and out of rehabs, etc. but then I finally got clean and started a new life. I had kept my drug use such a secret that the only people who really knew what had happened...
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    Today I'm Single...

    Nice, thanks again man...So far I'm holding strong. I'm marking the days of no contact on the calendar as they get finished. (Been since Monday) I just bought a book today on codependency and it is really hitting a nerve with me and helping put my situation in perspective. I'm also...
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    Today I'm Single...

    Thanks man. Good point. I will get through this.
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    Today I'm Single...

    Not too far off actually: Ummm let's see...we didn't talk for probably 2 weeks. She called up one night randomly crying that her cat got hit by a car and killed. She asked me over for Thanksgiving. I'm sick and couldn't say no. I went over had a good time with her and the kids. I...
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    The official Borderline Personality Disorder thread [Merged]

    Thanks Thank you guys for all the knowledge and insight. I'm still dealing with the one I wrote about a few months ago. I feel like a drug addict. My mind is playing tricks on me, telling me maybe it wasn't so bad, maybe she'll be better now, maybe it's me etc. etc... And the funny...
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    marrying a BPD

    Agreed. Awesome.
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    need help, girldfriend depressed, treats me poorly

    hey man just wondering how you are making out with this situation??
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    37 today...it's been a disappointing couple of years! Gonna make this year a good one

    Happy Birthday STR8UP! I've been a lurker here for years and your posts have definitely had a positive impact on my life! Thanks my dude
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    A milestone.

    Awesome...that's what's up man. Congratulations.
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    Today I'm Single...

    thanks duff...right now im just trying to purge this parasite out of my life, so i've committed to no communication for 20 days....once i get that far i will reconsider my options
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    HPD...advise please..KONTROLLER, WARRIOR?? ANYONE

    Fukkin awesome. Vulpine you are the man. :up:
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    Today I'm Single...

    great article :up: thanks!
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    Today I'm Single...

    Ha I know, it's like the whole thing is a fukin bad cliche. She claims she wasn't doing coke when she was stripping (which she also claimed she only did for a month) it was only after she was with her drug dealing boyfriend who used to beat on her that she started getting high...
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    Today I'm Single...

    Thanks Rollo.... Yes...And that's the scariest part. Pretty much the whole time I was with her, I was thinking "I have to get out of this." I mean as a person, I don't even really like her that much, she doesn't have anything interesting to say, she never had one insightful comment, we would...
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    Today I'm Single...

    No actually not...but i'm sure that was just a matter of time lol. Psycho chicks :nono: It's just amazing to me how you can be in the middle of something, knowing that's it totally messed up, totally AFC, and definitely not going to end well...but then turn around and keep doing it.
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    need help, girldfriend depressed, treats me poorly

    Not Alone 2 Wow Trajhenkhet01 that really sucks... Darkstarrr, that sucks for you too. I'm in a relatively similar situation right now...I was lucky in that at I was at least conscious of what I was getting into, and knowing that due to the insanity it never had a chance of working. To...
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    Today I'm Single...

    Thanks guys, I appreciate the feedback... So I was just at Wal-Mart standing in line with my cart, when for some reason I just turn around and guess who's standing there in the next line over with her kids and mom...ha I don't think they saw me, so I turn around and, wanting to avoid any...
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    Today I'm Single...

    Thanks SharpGame. So true.
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    Today I'm Single...

    I know. It's fukin insane. I'm a joke. The only thing I can say is that I didn't realize the extent of everything when I first started getting involved. Then slowly one thing after another kept popping up. I should've been out way earlier but I stuck around. I have no clue why...
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    Today I'm Single...

    Yesterday I wasn't. I don't really know where to start, but I've been reading this board since probably 2003. Never really posted much, just read what other people had to say and tried to apply it to my life. I want to say thanks to everyone who has been posting over the years because...
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