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Hello everyone, I noticed that this thread is going in a wrong direction recently. Ok, I'll share my story later (currently 1 month NC, 7 years relationship) because I need time to correctly write it. Sorry, if I sound too arrogant btw, but I want you all to feel better, so keep in mind that...

@CerwinVegaFan That's the power of NC. But the true purpose is to heal. Don't call her or ANYTHING. You'll just give her validation, she'll gain the power back, then act cold again, you'll feel pain and heartache and back to square 1. You don't want that do you ? Stay strong my friend. It...

To me, it seems you're in the process to develop oneitis for her (I might be wrong, just based on how you wrote your post) oneitis + work ? I shouldn't have to say more I think ? Get other plates first. It will be beneficial in two way 1/ not developping oneitis 2/ you'll appear...

I have a little different perspective on spinning plates. Let's say if you find the perfect woman for you, you'll stay with her forever and ever. The thing is, what is the perfect woman ? I'm sure you can't really answer that. You'll just come with the common things (beautiful, interesting...

BeatJunkie, Sorry to say that, but you can't stop thinking about her. You WILL think about her. Just acknowledge it, take the time to grieve, then keep yourself busy. Soon enough you'll think less and less about her Evantually, you'll recieve another mail like that, you'll think about her, not...

Also don't forget : DON'T JUDGE HER BASED ON TEXT BUT ONLY ON HER ACTS The truth is, she accepted your date invitation. EVERYTHING ELSE IS BS So don't random text her, it will only be more confusing

@CerwinVegaFan The thing is, you already told her you'll give her the shoes. 1/ You don't give them, and then she will think that you are angry or something. 2/ You give them In both case, you'll lose power. To keep the power with NC, the key is to be INDIFFERENT (or behave like it) You...

Darrenez, I just registered for you (And I'm going to post my experience with NC when I have time. I think it will be as therapeutic to you) Please don't get those thoughts in your head. Push them away. I'm in the SAME BOAT as you right now (6 7 years relationship that came to an end some...