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    Cross-cultural LDR/LTR big time fvckup and loss of integrity

    Continued (sorry it's so long) When I told her the words that I was giving up on her, that's when I realized that I had given up my integrity, given up on my ideals and that I was paying dearly for it. Nevermind the fact that I was losing an incredible woman, I was also losing her respect...
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    Cross-cultural LDR/LTR big time fvckup and loss of integrity

    Hello, TL;DR: I fvcked up a previous (unhealthy) relationship because I was an AFC, but with integrity. Then this forum helped me become an man with integrity. And after that, I fvcked up a healthy relationship because I became a man who lost his integrity. Now I feel like scum, I figured...
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    Why marriage, and not a committed LTR.....

    Great answer, thanks.
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    For EVERY guy under 25 (hell, every guy) who has watched PORN

    101% of Americans are fat I would like to draw your attention to Part 3 of that series: 66% of Americans are overweight. 35% of Americans are obese. That means 101% of Americans are fat. WTF! I'm sure glad I'm Canadian. Seriously though, I have a bachelors degree and a masters degree...
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    Dynamics of an LTR and being a man

    me too! Damn, I feel like I'm going through the same thing, imarockstar ("oooh I need space")! I'm glad you posted about this.. definitely need to get back into my own frame of mind. It's too bad that good LTRs make guys tend towards AFC behaviour :kick:
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    The Magic Story - Must Read

    Cool, I still like the story, but I looked the guy up on wikipedia and found this: "Broke, and with no market for his stories after the passing of the dime-novel era, Dey shot himself in his room in the Hotel Broztell in New York City, during the night of April 25, 1922 or the morning of...
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    The Magic Story - Must Read

    Who wrote this? Really liked the story.. who wrote it?
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    Getting pressured by parents

    yea this is absolutely right, as far as I can tell by my experience. I did have very similar values with my ex. If we didn't, it would have failed a lot sooner. She was a bit of a feminist sometimes and that was annoying as all hell, but most of the time she was pretty ok. Different values...
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    Getting pressured by parents

    Yea same situation.. Hey Mazeman11, I'm not going to tell you what to do, but I went through this same situation (South Asian descent). We dated for over 8 years and my parents were in a constant state of apeshyt about it for more than 6 years. It caused a lot of strain between my family and...
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    Subconscious is making it hard to forget

    Yea I had this too. We have been apart for 2 years now, but if she somehow comes up - like her mail shows up at my address... Then WTF!!!! Everything goes wonky, I get a vivid dream and need to spend some time the next morning clearing things out of the mind. It's annoying, but as time goes...
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    Dumped by longterm girlfriend

    JacqueDamn!, So I hardly ever post, but I've been through the same kinda **** you have, except maybe not as bad. Anyway the biggest and most useful piece of advice I've ever gotten out of these forums is to really question the point of your existence when you're thinking about that girl with...
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    How to give the stare of DEATH to women

    Hahaha this one is even better: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IMHwCbbG6WY, especially when the cellphone goes off. Roy Keane is my new hero.
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    Be a Man!

    Amazing This post is absolutely amazing!!!! It makes sense.. everything it's saying is hardwired in us.
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    the break

    Be happy you knew about this forum before she had a chance.. Dude.. I just turned 27. My ex-gf and I broke up over the past summer with very similar circumstances.. both grad students, she just kinda went all ****ed up like women do when they want out. It was pretty heartbreaking because I was...
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