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thanks. I am leaning towards breaking off by text. Any thought on that and what kinda message to send?

Been dating girl HB5ish/10 for 3 months. seeing her once to twice a week. Just made the decision to break it off. I am just not that into her. She is a good chick and I sorta believe she is a fair bit emotionally invested although we have never spoken about our status as a relationship...

Yeah, I agree. That is what I wanted to hear. I like the chick, and like I said she seems pretty attached already.. kinda would prefer her not knowing I am still active on OKC. But I want to keep spinning plates.

I am on both OKC and POF. Met a chick from POF in Real Life, been on 3 dates. Had sex on the third. Meeting her this weekend. She seems a little bit attached. Haven`t logged in POF. But I've kept communicating with a few other chicks on OKC. Last night I noticed a blank profile...

I know and agree. Its been 2 months since I've seen her now. I stopped initiating contact for a long while, but keep receiving pings from her. I ignored the last two. Again, here is my question: what is a bigger DHV for me? 1-Keep ignoring and move on. (either she goes overt and pushes hard...

foreplay, remove clothes, being more aggressive. stuff that usually works for me. but i don't think that is my issue here. I think I got to point of being too predictable with her by setting up all the dates all the time. She got used to our routine and not having to completely put out.

thanks. I always escalated already, never worked fully. I know that if I set up the date again, it will go back to the old routine. I don't want that. The only way I accept seeing her again is if SHE puts big effort into meeting me. I want her to set up the date, and look forward to it.

Hey guys, SITUATION: -dated a chick (hb7) for about 3 months only once a week. -Dates only consisted of cheap drinks/desserts then go home for makeout sessions. -Most sexually we've done is finger/oral -I was never an emotional tampon, only communicated to arrange dates. Never really...

Actions speak louder than words dude. She's just not that into you. Walk away. Yes she will most likely "chase" you a bit afterwards. If she does, you will either: A) Fall back into her trap and still get stringed a longed a one-sided relationship (she gets attention, you get no sex). (you...

So I've been getting numbers from girls online. This particular one, I got her phone number fairly quick. We then exchanged a few funny texts back and worth and set up a meeting for next Wednesday (which is in 5 days). Not sure if I should contact her in between. Do you guys have any...

I don't think you understand the reason why some of us "NEXT" a girl for not putting out. The reason is not to punish the girl. The reason is in fact because she isn't attracted to us, so why continue investing time and effort on her? We have to accept that we did something wrong early on...

I appreciate the advice. Again though, I am not blaming the girl for not putting out. I know I have done something wrong at the beginning which caused her to give me LMR's. I am the one to blame at all times for things that happen in my life. I realize this chick's Interest level is only...

Nightcrawler; I have been on much more than 3 dates with this chick. We went out more or less once a week for 3 months. Also she wasn't in my class for 3 months, we started dating at the end of last semester. She isn't in any of classes now. I never committed fully, as I was at least semi...

Valid points. thanks. Although in my case, wealth is def. not an issue. My looks as well. I believe I wasn't sexual enough early.

Yup, wouldn't be surprised

Hey guys, Just a rant.. Met a girl from my class last semester (3 months ago). I don't date chicks often and really liked this one. Thought I was doing good, kept a dominant frame the whole time. She asked a lot sexual questions about me during the first date, but I kept the vibe non-sexual...