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[sicsec]

been in a chicks bed sleep over four times with no sex just kissing and fondling. She told me quite a few guys are in the same predictament with her over time. Any guys out there have similiar situations...any advice with this juvenile spooning nonsense.

 

[sirkjd]

Actions speak louder than words dude. She's just not that into you. Walk away. Yes she will most likely "chase" you a bit afterwards.

If she does, you will either:

A) Fall back into her trap and still get stringed a longed a one-sided relationship (she gets attention, you get no sex). (you lose)
or
B) You drop her, you DHV even more because you don't settle for less than optimal situations, get your frame back and focus on new plates. (you win)

 

[Nik TPT]

Sounds like she's playing games or trying to seem "hard to get" in the hopes that you will chase her further.