Thanks for ur reply. I am seeing other gals. Its just that the rest of them are not as "on" as the one i mentioned. I m willing to move on like i have always have. That being said, i would like to call on her bull**** if she makes it hard for me again. She used to be very quick to reply full of...
me : are you still keen on meeting up?
Going forward, dont stay stuff like this^
It comes off as if you constantly are getting stood up and you now have to seek validation. Just make definite plans.
How can i restart a conversation if she has been given half-hearted replies?
Her...
Hi,
There was this girl who stopped replying enthusiastically to my texts. Recently, i learned about the importance of boundaries. So i text her something like
me : are you still keen on meeting up?
she : Hey!!im free tonight. Are u able to after 7?
Long story short, i tell her that i can...
Hey man, thanks for ur reply. I m applying the teachings of J.krishnamurthi and eckhart tolle for this. But I would like to ask u how did u bring it up consciously and observe this? Did u relive the memory of it?
Regarding the embarking on ur projects thing, i think u are so right! Doing...
Firstly, Im from an Asian conservative country. It so happens that the girls that I have managed to retain through cold approach are from my uni. All these gals are conservative also and preety intelligent. I am very egotistical on the dates. I talk about how good looking I am and I normally...
Yea man. Right now, Im dedicated to applying j.krishnamurthi teachings and doing what eckhart tolle is teaching me. Been at it consistently also. I may think of incorporating yoga, but I dont think ill do qigong.
Not why workout. But HOW does workout get rid of an emotional issue?
Yes i do take care of my body and do want to look my best. Which is why I go to the gym. I have a workout plan, protein powder and i stick to it.
Im interested to know. Why does the cmmunity advocte working out/taking up a sport/being active? U get increased testesterone. But how is that linked to desperation? I mean desperation is a bit more complex, normally arising from lack of childhood affection. Any comment on that?
Hi guys.
I have been trying to get rid of neediness from myself by learning to love life.
Im organising more social outings
Going to the gym
Working on my core purpose
Focusing on my academics
Working on my inner self through spirituality
And.. NOT making women the centre of my life.
I would...
Hey guys,
It seems to me that i can only keep the gals that i have approached who are from my uni. All other gals that i have met through cold approach and not from my school have not stayed.
I have been forming negative beliefs about this. Like its not possible to date and keep a gal who is...
@ Eternal Water : Yeah Man!
@ ItsAllAboutME : I dont tell anyone i do this. Only a few male friends who are non-judgemental and my 2 female frens who give me advice. I say dont tell anyone and just do it on ur own. I approach on my own and i can tell u that its hard but worth it.
@Chamber36 ...
Thanks. I have been approaching and going on dates but it seems that this part of my life is not taken care of. I dont want the cool friends or anything like that, but just people who i can chill with. I have never ever dated a girl through normal means, aka meeting them through friends or in...
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