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    Is wanting closure a bad thing?

    I have gone without talking to my ex best friend for 6 days now. I simply ignore her when I see her at work. Part of me wants to ask her why she did what she did. Why did she lead me on if she knew she was playing? Is this normal? How can I stop myself from thinking this? Thanks!
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    Is she playing with me?

    Thanks a lot. I think you guys are right. I got played. It sucks getting played. I want to forget about this chick. Its a little hard since I have to see her every day. Any ideas?
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    Is she playing with me?

    I have a friend who I'm trying to forget about. I think she is playing with me. She is married and has confessed to me that she wants to have sex with me. I called her out on her **** and set up a date. She told me that she cant do it because it will destroy her marriage and **** up her...
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    Does She Like Me?

    I like the advice about slowly stop talking to her. I'm not a good actor and dont want to act indifferent towards her. She has always been a good friend and i dont want to lose that. I truly value her friendship. When my car ****ed up for a month, she was there on time to pick me up every...
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    Does She Like Me?

    I've decided to post this as an example of what NOT to do with a girl you really like. You all know the posts that I have placed on here regarding my planned trip with one of my coworkers. She has not cancelled. She still wants to go. However, I now know that she simply doesn't have...
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    Does She Like Me?

    lol my question stands pimp and/or donjosecantoise: which signs of attraction do you see? Its always good to hear another guy's perspective.
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    Does She Like Me?

    She's comfortable with you; I do see some signs of attraction from her, but not strong enough at this point to progress. According to you, what are the sign of attractions that you see? I'll see her tomorrow and act like I always do. If she asks about my weekend, I will know what to say...
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    Does She Like Me?

    You're likely right. She probably does see me as 1 of her girlfriends (or homeboy) and not in a sexual way. However to suggest that I should have acted in a sexual way from the beginning assumes I wanted to have a romantic relationship from the beginning. I did not. When I first met her, I...
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    Is being "bigger" down there truly better?

    This is a topic that I do know about. Trust me. Size DOES matter. Its like anything else. If you are a guy like me, booty and tits matter. Girls are sexual just like us. We have the advantage of measuring their goods without them having to take their clothes off of course. When a girl...
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    Does She Like Me?

    Thanks for the tips. I hope I don't come off as someone with no life other than this chick. I do enjoy lots of other things and talk to other girls. I love sports, traveling, and my job actually. And NOO its not just because she works there lol. The great majority of our time together we...
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    Does She Like Me?

    Thanks for the detailed answer. I do want to make sure I clear a misconception. I have been a wussy with girls before--doing everything they tell me to. That is not the case with this girl. I don't call or text her. If she gives me her opinion on something and I disagree, I don't do it...
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    Does She Like Me?

    I agree with DonJose. I have already told her in a nonchalant way that I have a thick **** and that I have had sex with several girls. She even knows some of them. I don't want her to think I'm immature for continuing to have sex without been in a serious relationship though. She believes...
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    Does She Like Me?

    UPDATE- Slept with girl. do I tell her? I had sex with another girl last night. I know that when I get back to work on Monday she is going to ask me what I did this weekend. Do I tell her the truth or not? I always tell her when I sleep with someone but now that we are getting close I'm not...
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    Is being "bigger" down there truly better?

    My experience has been that girls care more about WIDTH than length. If you are about 6 or 7 inches, you are ok. If you are thick, girls will like that a lot!
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    Does She Like Me?

    Thanks. I will stop telling her that I like her. One of the things I like most about her is that we can talk about anything. I know many guys believe that the guy should not talk that much because the girl will get bored. However, most of our conversation is not about me liking her or love...
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    Does She Like Me?

    Yes I understand. So do you then agree that she at least has some interest?
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    Does She Like Me?

    Thanks for the good feedback. I choose the roadtrip because we are going to go to a sporting event. We were initially going to go to a sporting event where we live but she is afraid that someone she knows might spot her and tell her bf. That is why we decided to travel to the sporting event...
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    Does She Like Me?

    Guys I'm confused about whether my friend likes me or not. She always finds time to talk to me at work. She cares about what I think about her. She laughs at my jokes even when they're not funny. She is always teasing me and calling me "mean" and an "*******" when I burst out on her. She...
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    Living with parents at 25... Smart or stupid?

    I'm 26 and I have lived on my own for over six years. I understand that your goal is to buy a house but I agree with many others here that such may not be a good investment. As for the girls' perspective, it depends on the girl and her values. My brother is 25 and lives with my parents. He...
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    Where to Take Her

    I like my best friend a lot. Now that her man is going on vacation she wants us to go out. I want to take this opportunity to push the envelope just a little. By that I mean I really want a kiss from this girl. Not sex. Since I usually want sex with other girls, I take them to my apartment...
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