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The wall just got softer again...(55 y.o Lucy Liu)

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I agree, but you generally know what you are going to get with an Asian woman. They are not going to be these emotional partners you have with white women and can be extremely petty & direct tbh. With white women, I cannot be comfortable with what I am going to get because they are so passive aggressive. A white woman will plan her divorce plan and date while she walks down the aisle on her wedding date.
Ooof. That's harsh, but there's more than a grain of truth in that!
 

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Genes also play a role here and lifestyle.

Some women age more smoothly than others, stress hormones and other factors contribute to a women looking like that in her 50s.

She looks good.
 

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I have found that Asian women will prioritize wealth and stability over emotional tingle preferences.
Better that a woman screen for a successful man, than to be looking for how many tats the guy has or how many years in prison he's done.
 

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Better that a woman screen for a successful man, than to be looking for how many tats the guy has or how many years in prison he's done.
Yeah, now we have vegan golden retriever looking laywers being all tatted up and riding Harley Davisons just to appeal to that bracket of women.

I can understand that if a man goes on several dates and keeps hearing that " something was missing, she felt more like he was a friend/brother and she honestly likes badboys" that he be like F it, imma adjust accordingly.
 
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I can understand that if a man goes on several dates and keeps hearing that " something was missing, she felt more like he was a friend/brother and she honestly likes badboys" that he be like F it, imma adjust accordingly.
Ima adjust accordingly too, but Ima adjust by getting me some other women. One with better taste. They're out there.

Some PUAs tell you to get a tat to attract more women, but I've always been F that, I don't want one. It's not me, I'd just be false flagging. Inauthentic. Besides, the only way I would get a tat is if I wanted one, which I don't. If a girl don't wanna get me with because of that, oh well, her loss.
 

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I think any human that puts in the work can avoid the wall barring non crappy genetics. There's always men and women that look like busted pilsbury can biscuits after high school.
It's OVER for BustedBiscuitCels.
 

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Maybe the wall is 55 in Hollywood but here in Wisconsin it’s 24,

She looks good but she still a 55 year old woman.

If you don’t believe there’s a wall for women and to a certain extent men, you haven’t lived long enough or don’t understand the concept. The wall isn’t necessarily a death sentence either like the hard red pill communities think.

The wall is simply not being able to increase you smv. Yeah she (LL) got the bolt ons and 10k makeup set from dior but her smv hasn’t increased since kill bill.
 
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Maybe the wall is 55 in Hollywood but here in Wisconsin it’s 24,

She looks good but she still a 55 year old woman.

If you don’t believe there’s a wall for women and to a certain extent men, you haven’t lived long enough or don’t understand the concept. The wall isn’t necessarily a death sentence either like the hard red pill communities think.

The wall is simply not being able to increase you smv. Yeah she (LL) got the bolt ons and 10k makeup set from dior but her smv hasn’t increased since kill bill.
Hence the title is the wall got softer, rather than " there is no wall".

If we're being honest ,thefirst thing men learn in the RP is that "28 is the female wall". But that's FAR from true..

So then the discussion is about how and when does a woman faces her wall? The first photo indicates that LL's wall is still a foam wall at age 55..

We can say " yeah but she's rich, she has dior make up and she has a personal trainer." Doesn't matter. Times are changing. Any woman can get dior make up and the gym costs 20 bucks a month.

Yeah, I saw some women on OLD and it was horrific to see how some women look at 40, and those would be an automatic skip
 

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Aw dammit! The wall is cope! The Wall is also a game show on NBC. There may be guys here that would smash that, let's not kid ourselves. For every guy that says they wouldn't smash, there's 3 guys that would. Let that sink in.

Women past 60 still get suitors. I dated a 62 y.o. realtor. Till she got with a Falcons player, they married in Hawaii. How do I know? She sent me a damn video of it! Like I needed to know that. Hell I prepared my exit when I saw several offers on her phone from other dudes after I f**ked the Sonic rings out of her to sleep, i.e. marriage, fly her out (Luxury U.S. vacations, no less), shopping at Gucci, dinner at Nobu, dinner at Fogo De Chão, 50 yard line seats to a Falcons game, damn I've been snooping. I could've listed more. Glad I did. I dated a new woman when this one got distant. You all see why.

I once dated a milf nurse who was 64. She saw me as Tyrone. I f**ked the Mario coins out of her. Just as I thought, some other dude entered the picture. I set her off when I said that we're not friends, and I don't do platonic friendships with women I've had sex with...and unloaded my cüm all over their body. I'm not gonna be some orbiter.

The fact is, as long as a woman has a vagina, she'll always have options across all her inboxes. Regardless of age, she'll still think she's entitled to some Tyrone because she had him 30 years ago. It may get difficult for these women to get a commitment. But to get dates, attention, and sex? Women aren't short in that department at any age. And most guys would rather date an attractive older woman than be playing Madden or Halo all night...barring it's a tournament with a huge jackpot ($100k for arguments sake), they're nicely paid Twitch streamers, or they're amongst the game's programmers/ developers/ producers etc. getting paid to make sure the game works well.

Celebs buy aesthetics all the time. Even guys with money buy aesthetics...among other things. If a guy just focuses on his money, he can buy status and sexy looks easily. Women care about these things. No guy cares if a woman is driving a vagina pink Ferrari. Women look a lot at LMS, now social media clout.

The wall is extremely padded, if not nonexistent.
 
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