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The wall just got softer again...(55 y.o Lucy Liu)

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Politely disagree. A lot (not all) of the hottest girls In my social circle before high school (who wouldnt give me the time of day back In those days) have absolutely hit the wall.

The roles have been reversed In that they have become sexually invisible to me While Im having success with younger/hotter/better girls than them.
But somehow men saying there Is a wall Is a cope or something. Yeah right

Saying a woman has hit the wall Is just a way of expressing you used to find her attractive but thats no longer the case (usually because she turned into a land whale or something). But thats not a cope, It just something that happens.
That sums things up quite well.
 

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Some-quite a few older women are still hot and bangable, once a guy's had a few drinks, done a few lines, or dropped some acid, this is true. Where things get complicated is when get into going exclusive: Most men who aren't 80-90 years old crave young women
 

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Politely disagree. A lot (not all) of the hottest girls In my social circle before high school (who wouldnt give me the time of day back In those days) have absolutely hit the wall.

The roles have been reversed In that they have become sexually invisible to me While Im having success with younger/hotter/better girls than them.
But somehow men saying there Is a wall Is a cope or something. Yeah right

Saying a woman has hit the wall Is just a way of expressing you used to find her attractive but thats no longer the case (usually because she turned into a land whale or something). But thats not a cope, It just something that happens.
I get that. However I say there is no wall because average and pretty women at older ages still attract men. You are not attracted to them, but others are.
 

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There was a study on here awhile back that said that men of all races find Asian women the most attractive. I can't disagree with that.
My first girlfriend was Asian and a nymph.

I believe Asian women are second in being wanted by all races, with white women first.
 

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Some-quite a few older women are still hot and bangable, once a guy's had a few drinks, done a few lines, or dropped some acid, this is true. Where things get complicated is when get into going exclusive: Most men who aren't 80-90 years old crave young women
If I weren’t taken there would be plenty of 35 -plus-year-old women to go for. And it wouldn’t require intoxication. Same goes for other men.
 

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I think there is a wall for women - it's called the menopause.

Now, that happens at different ages for different women and its effects are more or less severe for different women. But, ultimately that's when women cease to be fertile - and that's central to to their value and appeal, whether we like it or not.

A man's sexual appeal also fades over time but the decline is normally more gradual. For many women, it's like night and say when they go through 'the change' and, whilst HRT can fend off the worst ravages of the menopause, it can't restore a woman's fertility.

Now cue somebody posting photos of Liz Hurley or J Lo in their 50s looking hot. Yes, but first, for these women, looking good is a full-time job. Second, these photos are airbrushed. Third, they're still not as desirable as they were 20 years ago. When they were young and fertile.
I get all that, as said elsewhere. That doesn’t mean older women cannot get men.
 

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My first girlfriend was Asian and a nymph.

I believe Asian women are second in being wanted by all races, with white women first.
Flat faces, flat chests, and flat asses are every where in the Asian culture. Small waist to hip ratios. You sure they are 2nd?
 

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If I weren’t taken there would be plenty of 35 -plus-year-old women to go for. And it wouldn’t require intoxication. Same goes for other men.
Most women are still quite attractive at 35, some very much so. I think you'd see 55 year old women rather differently though. For the reasons explained - ie. they're past it. They've hit the wall - menopause.
 

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Flat faces, flat chests, and flat asses are every where in the Asian culture. Small waist to hip ratios. You sure they are 2nd?
I feel like this is a niche American preference. Are you African American? Sorry, but I have wondered this and your post just called for me asking it :rofl:
 

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Politely disagree. A lot (not all) of the hottest girls In my social circle before high school (who wouldnt give me the time of day back In those days) have absolutely hit the wall.

The roles have been reversed In that they have become sexually invisible to me While Im having success with younger/hotter/better girls than them.
But somehow men saying there Is a wall Is a cope or something. Yeah right

Saying a woman has hit the wall Is just a way of expressing you used to find her attractive but thats no longer the case (usually because she turned into a land whale or something). But thats not a cope, It just something that happens.
True. Sometimes two things can be true at once.

But it's also a fact that all that matters is today. If a woman looks like this today..then she is ( arguably) good-looking. Enough to attract and even control men.

Let's be real: she looks stunning in the 1st picture. If I wouldn't have seen the picture I wouldn't make this thread.

I always had a thing for Lucy and I was kinda shocked to see this...I can only pray I'll age like that
 

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Ain't no wall, man.

However, there is a lot of unnecessary generalizing.

The only things that matter is..

1. The mutual physical attraction..

2. The mutual vibe connections..

3. The mutual "benefits" factor (non sexual)..

As long as those 3 things are on point, non of that other fantasy, near-sighted bullsh!t even matters....regardless of her age.

You guys are just trying to boost your egos, with all of this tough talk. :lol:

Look, I understand we all have our preferences, but this goes beyond preferences.
 

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I bet the farm on the fact that 90% of men won't ever get to sniff these women's underside of their shoes..
Hard to argue with that

The frustrating thing is that there's so many of these girls where I live

These are examples of girls who I PERSONALLY think are super hot, but on nights out I see lots of young girls who really aren't far at all from being as hot. But they seem to ignore 99 percent of approaches from anyone who tries.

The first 3 girls are just young UK girls on insta who aren't even like 'famous' or anything.

Only the 4th girl is a legit model with a tonne of followers. (I believe she bangs some billionnaire dude from what I gather!)

The 2nd girls bangs this guy. He lucked out! See how long he can keep her lol
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Depends on your age and preferences in women.

I’m 57 and would take the opportunity if offered as I find Asian women attractive. Compared to many other 55 women I have encountered she looks good for her age.

I can understand much younger guys or guys with other race preferences having no attraction to her though. Beauty is subjective.
 

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Ain't no wall, man.

However, there is a lot of unnecessary generalizing.

The only things that matter is..

1. The mutual physical attraction..

2. The mutual vibe connections..

3. The mutual "benefits" factor (non sexual)..

As long as those 3 things are on point, non of that other fantasy, near-sighted bullsh!t even matters....regardless of her age.

You guys are just trying to boost your egos, with all of this tough talk. :lol:

Look, I understand we all have our preferences, but this goes beyond preferences.
Basically there isn't that much of a difference between the pictures from those young models and Lucy if we talk about abundance of potential male partners .

Both are beyond preferences. Both will reject most men
 

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Flat faces, flat chests, and flat asses are every where in the Asian culture. Small waist to hip ratios. You sure they are 2nd?
Not sure. Just a hunch.
 

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If I weren’t taken there would be plenty of 35 -plus-year-old women to go for. And it wouldn’t require intoxication. Same goes for other men.
Dunno that SS is the ideal place to admit that you don't need to be either drunk or strung out, in order to "go for" other men... Whatever floats your boat though, so long as everything is consensual between you and this other dude
 

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Dunno that SS is the ideal place to admit that you don't need to be either drunk or strung out, in order to "go for" other men... Whatever floats your boat though, so long as everything is consensual between you and this other dude
I see what ya did there. Funny.
 
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