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Younger guys are going to be more motivated to put up bigger notch counts due to more testosterone.

Younger males put focus their efforts with the higher testosterone levels. No porn and no masturbation is the best way to utilize higher testosterone. With high testosterone, no porn/masturbation, and a good exercise routine, that's going to help a lot.

Seduction is looks, money, status, and personality. Looks are most important. The good exercise routine is going to help with looks. With men under 30, women under 30 aren't going to judge similarly aged men too much on money. Men start getting judged more on money in their 30s (especially 35-39) by both similarly aged women and substantially younger women.

In a lot of cases, I've seen personality hurt more than it helps. A good looking guy doesn't need much of a personality to get laid, but he'll need some of it. Personality will matter more in retention than initial seduction.
 

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Younger guys are going to be more motivated to put up bigger notch counts due to more testosterone.

Younger males put focus their efforts with the higher testosterone levels. No porn and no masturbation is the best way to utilize higher testosterone. With high testosterone, no porn/masturbation, and a good exercise routine, that's going to help a lot.

Seduction is looks, money, status, and personality. Looks are most important. The good exercise routine is going to help with looks. With men under 30, women under 30 aren't going to judge similarly aged men too much on money. Men start getting judged more on money in their 30s (especially 35-39) by both similarly aged women and substantially younger women.

In a lot of cases, I've seen personality hurt more than it helps. A good looking guy doesn't need much of a personality to get laid, but he'll need some of it. Personality will matter more in retention than initial seduction.
I think this is a particularly good point.
 

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Do my Starbucks/ coffee shop, work remote and write books on your laptop approach, Brown Blazer approach.


Make some money, write a few pages and on your break approach some cutie because you’re GIVING off inspirational vibes of being on your purpose.


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Do my Starbucks/ coffee shop, work remote and write books on your laptop approach, Brown Blazer approach.


Make some money, write a few pages and on your break approach some cutie because you’re GIVING off inspirational vibes of being on your purpose.


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You must not live in the US because coffee shops here have eradicated the third-place environment.
 

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Oh I get it...You are going to tell me how I can bang hot girls without performing any initial form of investment and just banging them at your place the first night?
You can attract attractive women as long as you're nit stingy and have your life together and logistics in place.

However, your response of 'you need money for that' to the comment 'You can be with beautiful women without them being trash' is not entirely accurate. It’s ambiguous because both beauty and financial stability are subjective, and what’s considered 'beautiful' or 'optimal financial status' varies for different people.

I applaud you for assuming my response though, even though it was wrong.
 

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You can attract attractive women as long as you're nit stingy and have your life together and logistics in place.

However, your response of 'you need money for that' to the comment 'You can be with beautiful women without them being trash' is not entirely accurate. It’s ambiguous because both beauty and financial stability are subjective, and what’s considered 'beautiful' or 'optimal financial status' varies for different people.

I applaud you for assuming my response though, even though it was wrong.
This sounds pretty vague to me, but please help me understand your strategy by elaborating further.
 

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You must not live in the US because coffee shops here have eradicated the third-place environment.
Third places are struggling in the USA.

Most of the typical third places (coffee shops, gyms, bars, bookstores, churches, parks, etc.) are experiencing some some of decline and are less good for socialization.

At parks and gyms, women are wearing earbuds to discourage male approaches.

Church attendance is unimpressive in most faiths among unmarried people under 40. Fewer people are finding mating options within churches, although the type of person looking for a mate in a church would not be the type of person to use SoSuave or a similar forum.

Gen Z and younger Millennials haven't been known for going to bars/nightclubs as well. The pandemic didn't help with that, though it's a longer term trend.

Where's a younger male going to find socialization options for getting laid? Even middle aged men are having this issue at this point. The oldest Gen Y/Millennials are now middle aged.
 

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Third places are struggling in the USA.

Most of the typical third places (coffee shops, gyms, bars, bookstores, churches, parks, etc.) are experiencing some some of decline and are less good for socialization.

At parks and gyms, women are wearing earbuds to discourage male approaches.

Church attendance is unimpressive in most faiths among unmarried people under 40. Fewer people are finding mating options within churches, although the type of person looking for a mate in a church would not be the type of person to use SoSuave or a similar forum.

Gen Z and younger Millennials haven't been known for going to bars/nightclubs as well. The pandemic didn't help with that, though it's a longer term trend.

Where's a younger male going to find socialization options for getting laid? Even middle aged men are having this issue at this point. The oldest Gen Y/Millennials are now middle aged.
Go to Europe and you will see how much more popular third places are there compared to the US. I really cannot understand how any European could struggle socially unless there's a language/cultural barrier.
 

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Go to Europe and you will see how much more popular third places are there compared to the US. I really cannot understand how any European could struggle socially unless there's a language/cultural barrier.
Western European women do have a lot of the same attitude problems as USA women. That's a problem for men looking to mate in Western Europe.
 

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I can see the UK being similar to US, but the women outside the UK appeared normal to me.
You are in : Sweden, Bosnia Germany Spain Netherlands Finland Greece Portugal UK Belgium Poland Wales France Norway Russia Romania Czech Republic that often? And you talk to people who live there?

Or is this based on a blissful two weeks vacation?
 

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Do my Starbucks/ coffee shop, work remote and write books on your laptop approach, Brown Blazer approach.


Make some money, write a few pages and on your break approach some cutie because you’re GIVING off inspirational vibes of being on your purpose.


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No offense you seem like a genuine good person but you gotta use some of your abundance of free time to run and lose some weight.





None if this will work and it only makes people like me make meeting women easier. Going out to meet women is not a thing anymore unless you want low quality alcoholics.

If she drinks a lot of alcohol, or if you do, it’s a red flag for anyone desirable. I personally view it as a dealbreaker and don’t even bother with the trash quality at bars and clubs. In fact, I don’t even go to those venues unless it’s the day time and I’m with friends.

Extracurricular activities that don’t involve alcohol should be your top priority. Low quality trash are the ones who enjoy alcohol in general.
I disagree

The night scene is undefeated. Only L it took was 15 years ago when tinder took off and was still free from the Evil Algorithm. But that lasted a year or two max.

Shouldn't be advised that men avoid night life.
 
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The Fastest way to get laid with a lot of hot women within 1-2 years.


How did I do it?

-I was in bars 2-3 nites per week. My buddy and I would walk in, and if there weren't hot women we would instantly walk out. Luckily we lived in a large metro area and were willing to drive to another bar if necessary. We might hit 4-5 bars in a night. Stayed about an hour at each venue.

-I went to a lot of parties hosted by social groups. pool parties, game watch parties, Halloween parties, etc.

-I dressed good, smelled good, danced good, and was always social. My "game" wasn't great in the beginning but I got better and better.

-If she looked good, and was fun, it was game on.

-I was always on at least 2 dating apps. I scheduled most of my dates during the week so I could find girls on the weekends.

-I was willing to change out girls every 2-3 months. I kept 2-3 qued up in various stages. Only had sex with one at a time. I rarely went more than a few weeks without sex. I always kept the pump primed, and the pipe full.

-I had a good job, good cars, good house. I had money, but didn't lead with it. Not who I am.

-My personal life and hobbies were interesting to women. Always had plenty of confidence. Never feared rejection.

-None of the women I went out with were ugly or fat. Most guys considered them attractive.

-I was always very good at talking with women one on one and getting them attracted.

-I always enjoyed meeting new men and women.

-It helps if you are a fun and adventurous personality. My mindset has always been that of a hunter. I'm good at seducing.

-I was definitley no Chad or ChadLite.

The period of my life where I racked up a big notch count was a ton of fun and so many wild adventures that I will never forget. However, women were my only focus. Everything I did was about women. I put in the effort and kept improving. Its like anything in life, how bad do you want it?
 

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You are in : Sweden, Bosnia Germany Spain Netherlands Finland Greece Portugal UK Belgium Poland Wales France Norway Russia Romania Czech Republic that often? And you talk to people who live there?

Or is this based on a blissful two weeks vacation?
They seem like normal women to me other than the British Karens I commonly cross paths with. People have appeared relatively neutral to me TBH except the BRITS. The same guys preaching western women bad, non-western women good are throwing money at economically depressed locals in the poor parts of countries like the Philippines. Notice that you never see these guys interacting with the middle and higher classes of these countries.
 

Well I'm here to tell you there is such a magic wand. Something that will make you almost completely irresistible to any woman you "point it" at. Something guaranteed to fill your life with love, romance, and excitement.

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The period of my life where I racked up a big notch count was a ton of fun and so many wild adventures that I will never forget. However, women were my only focus. Everything I did was about women. I put in the effort and kept improving. Its like anything in life, how bad do you want it?
EXACTLY, I am sick of frauds preaching this aloof passive-aggressive game nonsense. When I was running through my 304 phase, I maintained a 10% BF, everything was geared towards women pretty much, I was constantly on the apps and going to bars/parties, and etc.
 
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This sounds pretty vague to me, but please help me understand your strategy by elaborating further.
What do you want to know? You need to be more specific.

If it's about hooking up with attractive women without leading with your wallet, I'm sure there are plenty of articles and posts on this site that explore that topic.
 

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What do you want to know? You need to be more specific.

If it's about hooking up with attractive women without leading with your wallet, I'm sure there are plenty of articles and posts on this site that explore that topic.
You can attract attractive women as long as you're nit stingy and have your life together and logistics in place.
Let's say I am 5ft 7, bald, asian, stable job in IT, and live within the city core limits?
 

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Shouldn't be advised that men avoid night life.
I agree with this on so many levels.

Showing up to a nightlife venue later in the evening is a very good way to get same night sex. You show up to a place, start an interaction, and if it goes well, same night sex can happen.

With Tinder/Bumble/Hinge, it takes the luck of an algorithm, 2 right swipes, some texting, and possibly a phone call (though rare now) to set up a date in a bar. For 1st date sex off of an app arranged meeting, it's going to take a bar and drinks.

Non-bar approaching is a challenging. In non-bar approaching, a lot of the women that any man will approach will be women not seeking new penis. With the bars, approaching women in bars after 9 PM is usually a sign that she's more open to new penis. A woman out at a bar at 10-11 PM on a Tuesday-Wednesday night is far more likely to be seeking new penis than any random grocery store/bookstore/gym woman.
 

Well I'm here to tell you there is such a magic wand. Something that will make you almost completely irresistible to any woman you "point it" at. Something guaranteed to fill your life with love, romance, and excitement.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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