She will let you know

[SW15]

Men lose confidence with hair loss. They at first don't feel like themselves; they don't look like themselves...until they recalibrate to the current reality. It's no dfferent than aging. We change through time (Shrugs).

I have good hair. Minimal recission in my early 40s and no grays. It's a part of my confidence. It is the variable where I have the strongest performance of @Mike32ct 's "Height, Hair, Money" keys to success for men 35+.

that guy needs to leave the house. He mentioned no real trouble meeting women...(screening was another matter), but after a full day being drained by a sales job, he enjoys his alone time to recoup. That's what is holding him from exposure, which he acknowledged.

That sounds like an introvert to me. I am somewhat of an introvert myself and why the sigma male stereotype fits me best. The lone wolf avatar represents my sigma male status.

I told him he'd do great with a med tech/lab tech/vet tech type chick. He laughed. Those gals are out there, but perhaps not the easiest to find.

It's difficult to seek a woman in a specific career. Med tech and dental hygienists are desirable women. It's difficult to find them out in the real world.

 

[Barrister]

I imagine this is the kind of guy that on a date talks 75% of the time and tries to impress the woman with his accomplishments or whatever. Dating gurus such as OG Doc Love or later on Corey Wayne would advise against this behaviour because women like the strong, silent type; love mystery in a guy and discovering him slowly.

Not at all. You’re confusing simply being socially calibrated to know when to shut up during a date. Two very different things.

 

[BeExcellent]

That sounds like an introvert to me. I am somewhat of an introvert myself and why the sigma male stereotype fits me best. The lone wolf avatar represents my sigma male status.

Yup. My husband is a definite sigma male lone wolf type. It has its upsides.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Great question. I would never open a substantially older woman on her shoes and start a conversation. Complimenting a woman on her shoes is a played out, beta move.

If I happened to be sitting next to a younger, attractive woman (cute to hot range), I still would open a woman on something other than shoes.

On most flights, I don't happen to be seated next to an attractive, age appropriate woman. That's why I am either trying to sleep or I'm reading a book.

Among US based carriers, Southwest Airlines allows a person to select their own seat once on board as compared to every other US based carrier. A smart man can find a hot younger woman traveling alone and sit next to her. Maybe she'll give off open to conversation vibes, maybe not. If not, the play becomes to mind your own business. She will let you know very quickly.

I am open to talking to people in general on planes if they have a good demeanor. This could be a male or female. It is rare to get seated next to an attractive female similar aged or younger on a plane, even on Southwest Airlines.

I found a good thread on this forum from 2010 about picking up women on flights. It mentions Southwest Airlines and the open seating. I've followed that plan when flying Southwest over the years when I've been seeking new women.

Picking up Women on Airplanes

Hey guys, The hardest part of picking up women on airplanes is getting a seat next to the woman you want. Sure, you can get lucky and your boarding pass can just happen to put you there. Just like you can know nothing about Love Systems and get lucky at a bar. But, the whole point of Love...

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No, you just simply lack the conversational skills to make it work. Let's call it what it is.

It's rarely the message, it's almost always the way it's delivered.

The transition from the opening statement/comment is far more important than whatever you say starting out.

Most guys have no idea how to transition smoothly and end up leaving quickly...usually too quickly.

 

[SW15]

No, you just simply lack the conversational skills to make it work. Let's call it what it is.

Why was this directed at me? What you quoted of me had nothing to do with my conversation skills.

Most guys have no idea how to transition smoothly and end up leaving quickly...usually too quickly.

This is somewhat true. Most conversations go nowhere on account of 2 things.

1. Man has mediocre to subpar conversational skills
2. Woman is not in the market for new penis

Factor 2 is far more influential than Factor 1.

Approaching strangers is difficult. Most women at any given time aren't in the market for new penis. This affects non-bar approaching more than bars. If women are showing up to bars, it is more likely they are seeking new penis. Women in relationships not seeking new penis are less likely to be present at bars. Bar game has its own set of challenges too but at least women in market there. At a grocery store, mall, fitness class, on a walking path, etc., there's no way to know if the woman is actually in market.

Factor 1 might indicated that men are leaving pussie opportunities on the table by leaving conversations too quickly. That happens but I don't think it is happening as much as men are getting into conversations with unqualified prospects.

We also have an example in this thread of a 34 year old man complimenting a 55 year old woman's shoes. When you initially quoted me, I was providing some reaction to that. For the 34 year old man, that's an unqualified prospect. He was stuck in an airplane though. He might not have been looking to get some pussie out of the interaction.