Pregnancy Announcements Everywhere! Life When Your Blue Pill Social Circle Starts Having Babies

[SW15]

You're 100% correct when you say we're around a much higher concentration of broads in college than at any point post-college.

For men who attend college, the transition from college to the working world is a major change in terms of the mating environment.

All post-college men need to adjust to the fact that their daily lives post-college won't automatically put them in contact with a lot of eligible women.

The advice of "just go outside" that gets told to a lot of men is only partially true. Going outside helps because it is necessary. However, going outside without a plan isn't going to lead to much.

It takes effort for men in their 20s-40s when they go outside into the world to meet women. There needs to be a plan.

Most post-college men have a poor daily routine for being in contact with women. These are men that go to some office setting (with mainly married women co-workers), go home, watch TV, and maybe go to a gym with women who wear headphones/earbuds on the general gym floor. That routine doesn't lead to much. Instead, a man will need to create his own opportunities. Too many men in this situation rely upon Tinder/Bumble/Hinge for that. The better play is to create real life opportunities from traditional daygame stranger approaches, nightlife venue approaches, and some activity stuff, like a co-ed sports league. Participating in most co-ed sports leagues isn't the easiest play for getting poontang, it might be worth doing. It would depend on the individual man and the rest of his routine.

Most of the men in my primary local social circle (the people who this thread is about) met the women who would become their wives in a post-college setting. I have one friend who moved to Dallas in a relationship with his college era girlfriend. The rest of the men were men who had to rely upon something post-college to meet women.

 

[GoodMan32]

For men who attend college, the transition from college to the working world is a major change in terms of the mating environment.

All post-college men need to adjust to the fact that their daily lives post-college won't automatically put them in contact with a lot of eligible women.

The advice of "just go outside" that gets told to a lot of men is only partially true. Going outside helps because it is necessary. However, going outside without a plan isn't going to lead to much.

It takes effort for men in their 20s-40s when they go outside into the world to meet women. There needs to be a plan.

Most post-college men have a poor daily routine for being in contact with women. These are men that go to some office setting (with mainly married women co-workers), go home, watch TV, and maybe go to a gym with women who wear headphones/earbuds on the general gym floor. That routine doesn't lead to much. Instead, a man will need to create his own opportunities. Too many men in this situation rely upon Tinder/Bumble/Hinge for that. The better play is to create real life opportunities from traditional daygame stranger approaches, nightlife venue approaches, and some activity stuff, like a co-ed sports league. Participating in most co-ed sports leagues isn't the easiest play for getting poontang, it might be worth doing. It would depend on the individual man and the rest of his routine.

Most of the men in my primary local social circle (the people who this thread is about) met the women who would become their wives in a post-college setting. I have one friend who moved to Dallas in a relationship with his college era girlfriend. The rest of the men were men who had to rely upon something post-college to meet women.

With what a disaster college was for me (the fact I had to rely on tech methods), no wonder post-college has been even worse.

 

[SW15]

With what a disaster college was for me (the fact I had to rely on tech methods), no wonder post-college has been even worse.

There are guys that find that college doesn't live up to the hype for them. It's a common experience for men that go into college expecting that the college campus experience will help them attract a lot of women.

The typical play for most college males is to get into some LTR during college. That college era LTR might last for a good portion of college. It usually doesn't last that much beyond graduation.

Most men who go to college will end up having to face the mating environment again at some point after college between ages 22-23 and 29.