How to get laid a lot, even if you live with your parents

[CornbreadFed]

How important is p**sy eating when it comes to sex anyway? I personally don't eat because it's disgusting, but some people even eat the other hole, which is even worse considering what comes out of there.

At some point, you gotta give to receive.

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

At some point, you gotta give to receive.

You don't need to go 'quid pro quo', you can satisfy a woman in other ways.

How important is p**sy eating when it comes to sex anyway? I personally don't eat because it's disgusting, but some people even eat the other hole, which is even worse considering what comes out of there.

If you don't enjoy cunnilingus because you think it's 'disgusting', you shouldn't ask a woman to suck your disgusting penis.

 

[JuanSama]

If you don't enjoy cunnilingus because you think it's 'disgusting', you shouldn't ask a woman to suck your disgusting penis.

I don't care about getting bjs either and never ask for it for that reason. It's underwhelming when compared to penetration, so I don't see the point. But compared to vaginas, penises are generally more hygienic because it's not a hole that breeds bacteria as you can tell from the smell. Cunnilingus looks like a beta act to me and is mostly a western culture. Russians don't do it, for example. The very fact that you'd ignore that putrid smell and possible oral infections just to pleasure a woman is beta to me.

 

[HaleyBaron]

How important is p**sy eating when it comes to sex anyway? I personally don't eat because it's disgusting, but some people even eat the other hole, which is even worse considering what comes out of there.

Don't do it, don't feel like you have to do it, and the woman will even look down on you for doing it. You're the man. Always receive. If she wants a stimulus, that's what a vibrator or her beta orbiter is for.

 

[JuanSama]

Don't do it, don't feel like you have to do it, and the woman will even look down on you for doing it. You're the man. Always receive. If she wants a stimulus, that's what a vibrator or her beta orbiter is for.

Like I said, I don't care about receiving it either. I suspect that oral sex is now considered normal, or even a necessity because of porn consumption. My grandpa probably didn't know what a bj was nor what a vagina tastes like but was still more alpha than any of us can be.

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

My grandpa probably didn't know what a bj was nor what a vagina tastes like but was still more alpha than any of us can be.

You wanna talk alpha? I'm Dutch. My great-great-great-great grandfather built half of Amsterdam from the profits of spice and slave trading. I think he's more alpha than your grandfather.

 

[HaleyBaron]

Like I said, I don't care about receiving it either. I suspect that oral sex is now considered normal, or even a necessity because of porn consumption. My grandpa probably didn't know what a bj was nor what a vagina tastes like but was still more alpha than any of us can be.

Bj was always more of a luxury thing you got from the woman now and again. It showed that she was completely submitted to you. Plus, it gave one woman something to do when you were f*cking more than one woman, whether buying prostitutes or having a harem. It's not necessary in the grand scheme of things. But going down on a woman has always been a submissive state for a man, and I never subscribed to it. And for the men who say they like doing it no matter what the woman thinks, you're still doing it to please the woman as the fundamental drive. At least with bondage, the man gets off on torturing the woman. That makes sense.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

At some point, you gotta give to receive.

Actually. You don’t.

 

[JuanSama]

Bj was always more of a luxury thing you got from the woman now and again. It showed that she was completely submitted to you. Plus, it gave one woman something to do when you were f*cking more than one woman, whether buying prostitutes or having a harem. It's not necessary in the grand scheme of things. But going down on a woman has always been a submissive state for a man, and I never subscribed to it. And for the men who say they like doing it no matter what the woman thinks, you're still doing it to please the woman as the fundamental drive. At least with bondage, the man gets off on torturing the woman. That makes sense.

I could subscribe to the idea that bjs are an act of submission because I wouldn't believe any woman who claims to enjoy the act itself. So it does make sense that cunnilingus is also an act of submission because it's even less enjoyable than bj due to the nature of vaginas.

 

[SW15]

How important is p**sy eating when it comes to sex anyway?

It helps for making the experience more enjoyable for the woman. I think it also helps if you want to have more repeat instances of sex with women.

 

[pipeman84]

I keep saying that after 40 (and perhaps even 30/35) a man must accept certain things. What the F you've been doing from age 15 / 30? That's right. Chilling. Relaxing. Sleeping. Gaming. Jerking. Own your decision making. You can't become a pro boxer at 35...equally, love and kids are a young man's game.

Totally disagree with this POV. It applies to women, not men. At 20 a guy is still a boy. Between 20-40 he's supposed to discover himself (the ancient maxim of 'know thyself), explore and conquer the world, amass wisdom and wealth. Become a leader. A man is not a woman whose fertility peaks at 25 and therefore is weird that some think he's supposed to play house and change diapers at that age. Guys who are +50yrs old throw around hundreds of pounds of weights in the gym but can't handle a child? Charlie Chaplin who was in poor health had 8 kids after the age of 55 but guys nowadays who are much healthier at the same chronological age can't? That doesn't make sense to me.

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

It's hilarious how delusional this thread is getting.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

How important is p**sy eating when it comes to sex anyway? I personally don't eat because it's disgusting, but some people even eat the other hole, which is even worse considering what comes out of there.

I don’t eat either. My experience with girls is some are dissapointed. Others don’t care.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

You don't need to go 'quid pro quo', you can satisfy a woman in other ways.


If you don't enjoy cunnilingus because you think it's 'disgusting', you shouldn't ask a woman to suck your disgusting penis.

I don’t munch, so I never ask for BJ’s (I much prefer intercourse). But. I am somewhat surprised at how some women really love to give BJs. To the point where I literally tried to talk a girl out of giving me BJ. Didn’t work.

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

I don’t munch, so I never ask for BJ’s (I much prefer intercourse). But. I am somewhat surprised at how some women really love to give BJs. To the point where I literally tried to talk a girl out of giving me BJ. Didn’t work.

I prefer good fellatio and irrumatio over mediocre intercourse. One of my selection criteria for lovers is their attitude towards oral sex. Granted, my needs are different than most, but most women enjoy giving me oral sex. Especially in 'public'.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

I could subscribe to the idea that bjs are an act of submission because I wouldn't believe any woman who claims to enjoy the act itself.

As a guy who doesn’t reciprocate, doesn’t ask for BJ’s and isn’t really into them. I’ve had Lots of BJs.
I’ve had girls tell me: ‘I love svcking dvck.’. ‘I like licking & svcking things’. ‘teach me how to deep throat you, ‘How about I get over there & svck you off’…
I had a coworker who just wanted to give me BJ’s. I had a GF who blew me every time we got together. Eagerly.
With that being said. I’ve been with plenty who are not into it.

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

As a guy who doesn’t reciprocate, doesn’t ask for BJ’s and isn’t really into them. I’ve had Lots of BJs.

Imagine how many you would've received if you made it into a prerequisite.

As it is, I never ask for oral sex. I don't need to verbalise my demands, although I sometimes tell them "that costs you oral sex" as a game / challenge. So they have a 'reason' for giving me head. For instance, with one of my lovers, only the espresso is free, but a cappuccino means she has to pay for the milk foam and sugar. And she knows in what currency.

With that being said. I’ve been with plenty who are not into it.

Most of the time, women who love oral sex are better at sex in general. And I'm not even talking about the kinky ones. The garden variety who enjoys giving you head is often better in bed.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

Most of the time, women who love oral sex are better at sex in general. And I'm not even talking about the kinky ones. The garden variety who enjoys giving you head is often better in bed.

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I generally agree with you. However, the best kisser I ever got with wanted no part of giving BJs.

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

I generally agree with you. However, the best kisser I ever got with wanted no part of giving BJs.

She probably preferred irrumatio.