Undecided on vasectomy

[plumber]

Even with my generally bad luck, I've mentioned how I've turned down sex with young broads before (because of my pregnancy phobia). In other words, I am capable of getting young broads (at least every now and then)

With how badly I want to make sure I don't pollute a woman's womb with my genes, there's no way I'm changing my mind about kids.

I respect your choice.

Maybe if some sweetie really was into you and you could feel that for awhile (like at least a year) things are different.

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I had the same choice for a long time. Did not want to be responsible to bring a life into the crappy world. It seemed like an awful thing to do. It turns out that world view is somewhat tied to self view. And... in spite of all the chest beating on SS, self view is somewhat tied to how others treat us. We could follow that idea further on another. The idea for this one is that things change....

 

[GoodMan32]

@The Duke, I know you mentioned getting a vasectomy. Perhaps you can settle a debate @AmsterdamAssassin was having with me.

When performing a vasectomy, is it true that the doctor attaches permanent clips to the ends of your snipped pipes?

 

[The Duke]

@The Duke, I know you mentioned getting a vasectomy. Perhaps you can settle a debate @AmsterdamAssassin was having with me.

When performing a vasectomy, is it true that the doctor attaches permanent clips to the ends of your snipped pipes?

There are a few different methods. Yes some use a clip/clamp/band, others cut and sew the ends shut. My doc cut the vas deferens, took a section out, then sewed the ends shut. By the time the cut heals, the thread dissolves.

Here's a link to one that has the clips.

Michigan Urological Clinic | Male Urology Services

Leading Michigan urologists focusing on the treatment and diagnosis of urogenital disorders, specializing in vasectomy and vasectomy reversal.

michiganurological.com

I bet I've fired a couple thousand rounds thru my pistola and I'm still shooting blanks with damn near every round fired directly into the bulls eye. If you don't want kids, I don't know why you wouldn't have one done. 15 minutes in the docs office and a weekend of keeping your feet elevated and you'll be good to go.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Many of us have told you stop using the term broad.

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

@The Duke, I know you mentioned getting a vasectomy. Perhaps you can settle a debate @AmsterdamAssassin was having with me.

When performing a vasectomy, is it true that the doctor attaches permanent clips to the ends of your snipped pipes?

We didn't debate about that. I talked about how your fear of the anaesthesia fading during the procedure and how chances of pain during the procedure are minimal to non-existent as they make sure you're properly anaesthetised.

As for the clips, like @The Duke says, his are sewn. You don't have to go for clips if you prefer them sewing them shut. Unless health care in the USA changed a lot, I assume you still have a choice in that regard.

The thing is, like with everything you do, you are trying to find the negative parts of any solution for your problems so you don't have to take actions. This is what is referred to as 'emotional leech' behaviour. If you take action, your problems might go away, but then you'd have nothing to whine about. And if you don't get to whine, you're missing out on all the attention and validation those issues provide for you. It's a common issue for therapists, patients who don't want to get cured because their whole identity is wrapped up in their 'misery'. This is also a reason why you open so many threads here talking about all your issues. Every response, even the most negative scathing ones, give you a little dopamine rush. That's why you don't take action, it would deprive you of getting these little dopamine rushes.