@GoodMan32 @oc16 @SW15 @Manure Spherian @Mike32ct @Hal9000
Women definitely peak relatively young and generally don't really age that well. By the time a woman is 25-27, she is very likely locked into a long term relationship and considering marriage, children within the next few years or so.
IF a woman is still single as she is approaching 30, she is in a very bad predicament. With her biological clock ticking, she needs to filter through prospects and find a suitable partner that she can have kids with. Something more common now that I'm noticing, which I've discussed with
@SW15 , is that many Millennial women were brainwashed into the career woman/boss ***** role. Basically, these women become highly successful in college and their careers, but dating take a back seat OR they are just too damn fussy for their own good that they end up perpetually single. They might be so bad that they are still single and childless past 35 even and they go into panic mode. I can cite one really good example of a woman I know/know of that was just like this. What ended up happening is she hit 40 and literally had what I call a panic baby with a guy that was a total loser from what I heard lol. I actually think this is going to become increasingly more prevalent in the coming years, kind of sad how warped many women are today.
Now, going back to men.
Men typically become more attractive to women overall as they get older compared to when they are very young, but for different reasons. A lot of it has to do with social skills and confidence for sure, the average 18-21 year old guy is not going out there pulling left and right like he is a chad lol. Things like money and lifestyle are definitely factors to consider, some broke college student or a guy that is an apprentice electrician or enlisted in the military aren't able to provide this. As a man gets into his mid to late 20s he should have these variables sorted out, at least to some extent.
However, at 30+ I feel the issue is more related to the ability to attract younger women and not so much those other variables I mentioned above. At 30-40 a man can definitely date women that are 25-30 but it's not as easy as the trolls on here make it. The biggest variable in my opinion is how well a man took care of himself, how fit he is, etc. The reality is that the overwhelming majority of guys that are 30+ are already overweight or even obese. This is something you can work on for sure, but it honestly takes a lot of consistent effort over years. I'm exceptionally fit/strong for someone my age, I'm almost 35, and I consider myself a huge outlier. At ANY gym you rarely see guys that are 30+ at a fitness level that is overall above average or better. Many gym bros and very fit men slowly start fading away from the scene by the time they are 25, by 30 and over it's very unusual. So, in the big picture only a tiny number of men that are in the 30+ age bracket are in this category, so it's not worth considering.
In addition to all of this, we aren't even factoring in things you can't control (balding, grey hairs, etc.).
The reality is that unless you are very wealthy/willing to spend a lot of money OR exceptionally fit/attractive.......you are going to find that dating becomes MORE difficult with age and not less. In an ideal scenario, a man is better off finding a woman by the time he is in his mid to late 20s who is a few years younger, settling down, etc.
is related to his age in years?
