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Don Juan
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I wonder if anyone else shares the same view of quality > quantity when it comes to relationships (even short ones) with women.
It seems to me that for most guys a lay is a lay. But I see it differently. I won't go for it if the woman is not at least a 7,5 according to my taste.
And my scale might look like this: Face: Up to 6 points; Body: +1; Hair: +1; Femininity/Character: +1...
Which doesn't mean that I calculate each time whether a woman fits my criteria but this is just an example of how I see the overall rating to be.
This, of course, makes it harder to get laid. But for now I have only been with women that look good. And I think I prefer a drought rather than hitting low. I've talked to some friends about this, and nobody seems to be seeing it that way.
On several occasions I've rejected decent looking women that had high interest in me. Or stopped myself from cold approaching an easy set because "she was not good looking enough". And my concern in such a situation would be that she will like me but I won't, and it would be a waste of time, energy + even some inauthenticity, as I play directly, and why would I hit on her if I don't really like her anyway?
So there might be an issue here. By the way, I don't watch porn, but in my teenage years I did watch a lot of it. Perhaps this has to do something with the high standards. However, when I walk around outside, I often see and appreciate natural woman beauty. So my taste is not that unattainable.
What do you think?
It seems to me that for most guys a lay is a lay. But I see it differently. I won't go for it if the woman is not at least a 7,5 according to my taste.
And my scale might look like this: Face: Up to 6 points; Body: +1; Hair: +1; Femininity/Character: +1...
Which doesn't mean that I calculate each time whether a woman fits my criteria but this is just an example of how I see the overall rating to be.
This, of course, makes it harder to get laid. But for now I have only been with women that look good. And I think I prefer a drought rather than hitting low. I've talked to some friends about this, and nobody seems to be seeing it that way.
On several occasions I've rejected decent looking women that had high interest in me. Or stopped myself from cold approaching an easy set because "she was not good looking enough". And my concern in such a situation would be that she will like me but I won't, and it would be a waste of time, energy + even some inauthenticity, as I play directly, and why would I hit on her if I don't really like her anyway?
So there might be an issue here. By the way, I don't watch porn, but in my teenage years I did watch a lot of it. Perhaps this has to do something with the high standards. However, when I walk around outside, I often see and appreciate natural woman beauty. So my taste is not that unattainable.
What do you think?