So I’ve been on this forum for some time and I remember when I used to open threads about some girl I was talking to and she didn’t respond the way I wanted.
then you get advice and most of it is really useful and you realize what you did wrong and what you could do better.
I mean that’s nice but now that I have more choice than before I realize that individual girls don’t matter at all. Even if they act flaky or whatever I don’t care. There are other women I can talk to. Sure there are some you prefer but to be honest if these girls don’t want you, it’s not worth wasting your time with them.
if you have other women you’re talking to it won’t matter. A individual girl won’t matter and you can only really understand what I mean if you are not needy and have other options.
You're now a Jedi my friend!!! Even if you do not have a bunch of women at the moment one flakes on you eventually if you put yourself out there they will come, it's a numbers game but to have the numbers in your favor you have to put yourself out there and of course be your best self. It's all about mindset first, and it looks like you have that figured out.
Great that you realise that.
Most guys seem to be scarcity-driven, though. Even when they (should) know better, they still radiate thirst and desperation.
And you can tell them to stop chasing worthless women and follow the path to abundance by living their best life without hankering for sex, but they will always have an excuse for being so thirsty all the time.
Thirst makes men do some strange things, the thing is the thirstier you are the more desperate and simpish you act and it's a turn-off to women kind of like it's a turn of to men when a woman is to needy. Same energy
As I've got older I learned the secert to curbing this thirst is to be present and calm, and realize that you can't force it. The more I'm in my "Chill" (or as most people would call it stoic but I'm far from) the easier it gets
There seem to be two types of men in this world. Or perhaps 3. Those who are desperate after a one day dryspell. Those who opt out of the game for good and have 100 % peace knowing they "just won't get any ". And finally those who made it work.
Tbh the whole abundance mindset and how the RP describes this is rather aking to the second option ( MGTOW). When you have two women but you lose one it's like being "almost broke". Same desperation as being actually broke.
I keep seeing how many men say they are done dating and how they're doing anything and everything except chasing women.
Seems like men have a switch in their brain that can override the power of the urge to "procreate "( get p00sy). I still need to find that switch..
Let's be honest a lot of guys who say they are quitting dating weren't in the game to begin with. I have spoken to some incels myself a few years ago and they give up after 10 rejections, 10 rejections!!!! I use to get rejected 10-50 times a night back in the day when I was a "Game addict" but I'm talking about these guys got rejected 10 times in their live and now it's doom and gloom and we are talking about men in their early 20's working at chick fillet, living with their parents not going to school etc
Do not expect a woman to make you happy, it's better to be a man of joy and peace and have a woman enhance it, instead of relying on another person for complete emotional fulfillment
Also a lot of "MGTOWs" are one ******* away from going back to the plantation. In 2016/2017 I used to be friends with a latino guy who was a "Super MGTOW"(he even made youtube videos but didn't get a lot of views) the guy found out his baby momma was cheating on him and swore of women. He then went to the Philippines in 2017 (before Passport bros became a thing) smashed 10 women in a month, and met his now wife a doctor. The guy left MGTOW, deleted all his youtube videos and no one knows where the **** he's been since lmfaoooo
