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Don Juan
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Hi there,
since I am trying my best to put myself in situation and improove myself, I always find a lot of men trying to putme down.
I wrote this in anoter topic, but I would like to share my experiences with men, and see what you guys think about it.
I write this in hopes of finding advice from men. In this post I talk about the men I happen to deal with, and I don't want to offend any of you. Because not all men behave like this, but in every situation I find myself in, there is always this type of dynamic that makes my life heavy and difficult. I therefore ask you not to feel called into question when reading my words. Thank you.
Basically in any kind of situation, in a bar, working in a school, going to the gym, staying with friends, and even my brother: men always try to put me down.
I am the kind of self confident guy, gentle, smart, and I follow my own path without t falling prey to the hierarchies of men, without taking orders, and without ever adapting to a group. I have always thought and acted according to my code. This seems to cause a certain amount of envy and aggression in men, who then try to attack me in all sorts of ways.
If I go to the gym, some men form a group, spread bad rumors about me, talk to me behind my back, and try to bring me down by insulting me with phrases said behind my back.
In the past I worked as a waiter in restaurants, and even there, most of the time, male waiters always tried to push me down or create problems for me.
When I teach chinese language, male students try to bother and confuse me with noises or insults.
If I go to the bar, the male weaters get triggered by the fact that I speak with women.
If I work in a school, other male teacher try to find my weaknesess and try to put me down.
Even my old male friends, they were very manipulative, be friendly and then stab in the back.
Even my older brother, since I was a kid, always tried to put me down because I was "better" than him.
Usually women are kind with me, and understanding. Usually they support me. More rarely I find women that act in the same way of men, doing this covert aggression, but is something more rare. My main probelm are men.
I am a very smart guy, self confident, I speak and I teach chinese, I follow my own path. This is why men get triggered? I am getting exausted.
And so, how to deal with men? If I am gentle an friendly, they see me weak and they try to put me down. If I am self confident and I don't care of them, they get triggered and try anyway to put me down. It seems that just for the fact that I am the kind of person that I am, is somenthing most men are not able to deal with. So, anyplace I go, I always find men giving me a hard time. This is why I only date women, and have only women friends. They support me and are gentle.
What is the problem with men today? To me most of them are like acting in a very primitive behavior, like they are acting for survival, accepting hierarchies, bad behavior and acting like animals, without having any clue of why they do that. They always seems so dump to me, and still today, after puting my self in a path of growth, I have to deal with men again, and they are so bad and so miserable, that I would just like to avoid them.
since I am trying my best to put myself in situation and improove myself, I always find a lot of men trying to putme down.
I wrote this in anoter topic, but I would like to share my experiences with men, and see what you guys think about it.
I write this in hopes of finding advice from men. In this post I talk about the men I happen to deal with, and I don't want to offend any of you. Because not all men behave like this, but in every situation I find myself in, there is always this type of dynamic that makes my life heavy and difficult. I therefore ask you not to feel called into question when reading my words. Thank you.
Basically in any kind of situation, in a bar, working in a school, going to the gym, staying with friends, and even my brother: men always try to put me down.
I am the kind of self confident guy, gentle, smart, and I follow my own path without t falling prey to the hierarchies of men, without taking orders, and without ever adapting to a group. I have always thought and acted according to my code. This seems to cause a certain amount of envy and aggression in men, who then try to attack me in all sorts of ways.
If I go to the gym, some men form a group, spread bad rumors about me, talk to me behind my back, and try to bring me down by insulting me with phrases said behind my back.
In the past I worked as a waiter in restaurants, and even there, most of the time, male waiters always tried to push me down or create problems for me.
When I teach chinese language, male students try to bother and confuse me with noises or insults.
If I go to the bar, the male weaters get triggered by the fact that I speak with women.
If I work in a school, other male teacher try to find my weaknesess and try to put me down.
Even my old male friends, they were very manipulative, be friendly and then stab in the back.
Even my older brother, since I was a kid, always tried to put me down because I was "better" than him.
Usually women are kind with me, and understanding. Usually they support me. More rarely I find women that act in the same way of men, doing this covert aggression, but is something more rare. My main probelm are men.
I am a very smart guy, self confident, I speak and I teach chinese, I follow my own path. This is why men get triggered? I am getting exausted.
And so, how to deal with men? If I am gentle an friendly, they see me weak and they try to put me down. If I am self confident and I don't care of them, they get triggered and try anyway to put me down. It seems that just for the fact that I am the kind of person that I am, is somenthing most men are not able to deal with. So, anyplace I go, I always find men giving me a hard time. This is why I only date women, and have only women friends. They support me and are gentle.
What is the problem with men today? To me most of them are like acting in a very primitive behavior, like they are acting for survival, accepting hierarchies, bad behavior and acting like animals, without having any clue of why they do that. They always seems so dump to me, and still today, after puting my self in a path of growth, I have to deal with men again, and they are so bad and so miserable, that I would just like to avoid them.
