If you were a dating coach, where would you start with a complete kissless VirginCel like this?

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H8CourtshipWithAPassion said:
well one thing that definetley seems true, the way a man talks or behaves, acts, in conversation or interaction, communication, is a lot more important than the other way around when it comes to attracting a mate. It seems women judge men on the things they say and do more than the other way around
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That's because most men have no standards
 
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For a laugh, I put this question into ChatGPT, and this was the response:


If I were a dating coach working with a kissless "VirginCel" (someone who identifies with involuntary celibacy), I'd approach the situation with empathy and practical strategies. Here's how I'd start:

1. Mindset and Self-Confidence
  • Reframing Beliefs: Help them challenge negative self-perceptions or limiting beliefs about relationships. Being a virgin or inexperienced doesn't define their worth. I’d focus on building self-esteem, encouraging a growth mindset where they see dating as a skill that can be learned rather than an innate talent.
  • Self-Acceptance: Encourage self-compassion. It’s important they accept where they are without shame and understand that everyone moves at their own pace in relationships.
2. Social Skills Development
  • Communication: Begin with small, simple social interactions. Practice talking to people in various everyday situations to build comfort in socializing, whether it's at work, the gym, or even online.
  • Body Language: Teach the basics of confident body language—eye contact, open posture, and smiling.
3. Understanding Attraction and Dating Dynamics
  • Human Connection: Focus on emotional intelligence and understanding what draws people together. Building rapport, active listening, and showing genuine interest in others are key.
  • Realistic Expectations: Help them understand that dating isn't about instant success. It’s a process that involves rejection, learning, and growth.
4. Building a Fulfilling Life
  • Hobbies and Passions: Encourage them to cultivate a full, enjoyable life outside of dating. People who are genuinely happy with themselves and their lives tend to attract others naturally.
  • Fitness and Health: Physical self-improvement (diet, exercise, grooming) can positively impact both self-esteem and outward appearance, contributing to dating success.
5. Online Dating and Approaches
  • Online Dating Profiles: Assist in creating a genuine and appealing online dating profile, emphasizing authenticity and positive qualities.
  • Practice in Low-Stakes Environments: Encourage them to start in low-pressure environments, like online platforms or casual social settings, where the stakes feel lower.
 
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BackInTheGame78 said:
That's because most men have no standards
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Most men can't afford to have any standards, because it is already OVER for them with women of any decent level of desirability.
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BackInTheGame78 said:
You have no standards when you have no respect for yourself.
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I have standards - I will not fork a fat woman, and won't date a single mommy (not that I typically have any prospects that are not that :mad: ). That still doesn't correlate with success, though. :mad:
 
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DarwinTaurus said:
For a laugh, I put this question into ChatGPT, and this was the response:


If I were a dating coach working with a kissless "VirginCel" (someone who identifies with involuntary celibacy), I'd approach the situation with empathy and practical strategies. Here's how I'd start:

1. Mindset and Self-Confidence
  • Reframing Beliefs: Help them challenge negative self-perceptions or limiting beliefs about relationships. Being a virgin or inexperienced doesn't define their worth. I’d focus on building self-esteem, encouraging a growth mindset where they see dating as a skill that can be learned rather than an innate talent.
  • Self-Acceptance: Encourage self-compassion. It’s important they accept where they are without shame and understand that everyone moves at their own pace in relationships.
2. Social Skills Development
  • Communication: Begin with small, simple social interactions. Practice talking to people in various everyday situations to build comfort in socializing, whether it's at work, the gym, or even online.
  • Body Language: Teach the basics of confident body language—eye contact, open posture, and smiling.
3. Understanding Attraction and Dating Dynamics
  • Human Connection: Focus on emotional intelligence and understanding what draws people together. Building rapport, active listening, and showing genuine interest in others are key.
  • Realistic Expectations: Help them understand that dating isn't about instant success. It’s a process that involves rejection, learning, and growth.
4. Building a Fulfilling Life
  • Hobbies and Passions: Encourage them to cultivate a full, enjoyable life outside of dating. People who are genuinely happy with themselves and their lives tend to attract others naturally.
  • Fitness and Health: Physical self-improvement (diet, exercise, grooming) can positively impact both self-esteem and outward appearance, contributing to dating success.
5. Online Dating and Approaches
  • Online Dating Profiles: Assist in creating a genuine and appealing online dating profile, emphasizing authenticity and positive qualities.
  • Practice in Low-Stakes Environments: Encourage them to start in low-pressure environments, like online platforms or casual social settings, where the stakes feel lower.
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It should be called CopeGPT ...
 
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