If you were a dating coach, where would you start with a complete kissless VirginCel like this?

[BackInTheGame78]

well one thing that definetley seems true, the way a man talks or behaves, acts, in conversation or interaction, communication, is a lot more important than the other way around when it comes to attracting a mate. It seems women judge men on the things they say and do more than the other way around

That's because most men have no standards

 

[DarwinTaurus]

For a laugh, I put this question into ChatGPT, and this was the response:


If I were a dating coach working with a kissless "VirginCel" (someone who identifies with involuntary celibacy), I'd approach the situation with empathy and practical strategies. Here's how I'd start:

1. Mindset and Self-Confidence

• Reframing Beliefs: Help them challenge negative self-perceptions or limiting beliefs about relationships. Being a virgin or inexperienced doesn't define their worth. I’d focus on building self-esteem, encouraging a growth mindset where they see dating as a skill that can be learned rather than an innate talent.
• Self-Acceptance: Encourage self-compassion. It’s important they accept where they are without shame and understand that everyone moves at their own pace in relationships.

2. Social Skills Development

• Communication: Begin with small, simple social interactions. Practice talking to people in various everyday situations to build comfort in socializing, whether it's at work, the gym, or even online.
• Body Language: Teach the basics of confident body language—eye contact, open posture, and smiling.

3. Understanding Attraction and Dating Dynamics

• Human Connection: Focus on emotional intelligence and understanding what draws people together. Building rapport, active listening, and showing genuine interest in others are key.
• Realistic Expectations: Help them understand that dating isn't about instant success. It’s a process that involves rejection, learning, and growth.

4. Building a Fulfilling Life

• Hobbies and Passions: Encourage them to cultivate a full, enjoyable life outside of dating. People who are genuinely happy with themselves and their lives tend to attract others naturally.
• Fitness and Health: Physical self-improvement (diet, exercise, grooming) can positively impact both self-esteem and outward appearance, contributing to dating success.

5. Online Dating and Approaches

• Online Dating Profiles: Assist in creating a genuine and appealing online dating profile, emphasizing authenticity and positive qualities.
• Practice in Low-Stakes Environments: Encourage them to start in low-pressure environments, like online platforms or casual social settings, where the stakes feel lower.