@SW15 who seems to dislike Dallas.
On the first page of the Dallas Scene thread, I wrote...
Dallas is a rather mediocre mating environment. I wouldn't recommend moving here as a means of improving mating outcomes. However, this does not mean that it is not a good place to live when considering all lifestyle variables.
If someone is to move to Dallas, it's best to consider more than the mating environment when moving here. Someone should not move here solely for the mating environment.
I noticed that almost every guy I knew that was good with women in college fell off hard after it if he relied on social circles or parties his friends threw.
This can happen. I think it's less common than you think it is. It depends on what college the man went to and where he ends up after college.
I'll give some Texas examples here.
Example 1: Guy grows up entirely in a Dallas-Fort Worth suburb. He goes to the University of Texas in Austin. After college, he's working either in Dallas, Austin, San Antonio, or Houston. He'll probably be able to rely on his social circle beyond college, most notably if goes back to Dallas. He'll be working with a good alumni base from his college years and overall if he goes to Houston or San Antonio, or stays in Austin. This is the type of guy who will get into an LTR and marry faster. If this guy goes to a place like Philadelphia, Nashville, or Orlando where he can't rely on high school or college social circles, he's likely to struggle in those cities where he'll either be a swipe app dater or bar approacher. Odds are he'd move back to Dallas after 2-3 years in those cities.
Example 2: Guy grows up entirely in the affluent Park Cities bubble (University Park or Highland Park -- surrounded by Dallas) or Preston Hollow (affluent Dallas city limits neighborhood). He goes to Texas Christian (TCU) in Fort Worth OR Southern Methodist University (SMU --- in University Park bubble around Dallas). Guy gets job in Dallas after college. He'll have a great social network from TCU or SMU in Dallas. It's only when he would go to another city outside Texas where he'd struggle.
The formula for long term social circle dependency is
1. Spend all your K-12 years in one area
2. Go to a regional college
3. Stay in that region after college
Men who follow that formula rarely end up on forums like SoSuave early in life. It's only after they flounder after a relocation or divorce when they might have a chance to study seduction. A lot of the divorced guys from this formula never need to find seduction community content. They'll simply ask their blue pill social circle for another introduction. Those guys would fall off hard if they lack a social circle and then need to rely on swipe apps or in-person approaches.