SW15
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That is possible. He can date a career woman, but why would he want to do that?A stable man with an attractive & masculine mindset can easily date a career woman.
I think a man who is stable with that mindset is better off trying to date someone who isn't as career focused. She's likely to be a more supportive girlfriend in a longer term relationship or eventually a marriage. She's more likely to be present in the moment. She's less likely to be spending her Thanksgiving holiday working on contractual law for a client.
It is also worth pointing out that many stable men don't have an attractive or masculine mindset. Stable men tend to be average frustrated chumps/beta males. If they have bachelor's degree + and work in white collar, these are the individual contributors or middle manager type males (if older).
One of the more challenging parts about dating women in lower career ladders is finding a stable women. As an example, most 30+ paralegals, medical assistants, and dental hygienists who are single are single moms.If you are a broken man with a broken mindset then career women will not match well with you. Likes attract likes, if you are a broken man then you should be sticking to broken unambitious women in low level service work or lower career ladders.
A lot of men who can't attract young women because they are in middle age or beyond end up relegated to dating 30+ women. A lot of 30+ women are damaged. A childless older man might end up with some 30+ careerist female because that's his only option for dating a childless woman 30+.
These aren't necessarily broken men but sometimes there are men who have been dealt a bad hand in the mating marketplace for any number of reasons.
A lot of those "alpha males" aren't actually alpha. A lot of corporate management (both middle and higher levels) are beta males. A middle to upper management male who is middle aged and more beta might not be able to attract the substantially younger woman that he actually wants. If he's 45 and making $150,000 a year (generally good), he's still not going to have enough to attract 19 year olds in most cases. He might be interested in being some 19 year old living with his parents to bang some 19 year old female who has genuine burning desire for him. This 45 year old making $150,000 is often either a lifelong pussie beggar single or a pussie beggar divorced guy. The typical married manager guy has a wife who has lost sexual desire for him while living in their single family house with 2 kids. The similarly aged wife would have plenty of sexual desire for a 22 year old pool boy but not her 45 year old husband who she has been with over the last 20 years.The "alpha man" that "runs a business", has savings, dresses well, is confident and all the rest when it comes of women would gladly trade places with that poor teenager living with his parents that however bang some 19yrs old brand new wet Mary Jane cause she genuinely like him.