jamesfromhouston
Senior Don Juan
Have been seeing a plate of mine for awhile.
We have had sex numerous times (but mostly in the beginning).
I assume she has high IL because she would always initiate and message me. And she is always keen when I ask her out. She is generally very compliant and excited to spend time with me. She buys me gifts. She tries to surprise me with things.
But something weird has been happening recently, she seems to avoid sex with me despite wanting to hang out with me as much as possible.
Recent times I've hung out with her and tried to initiate sex, she will refuse or come up with excuses. She is keen to initiate kisses, making out but has started to hold back on her sexual contact.
I get girls can get LMR and ASD but the thing is we have already slept together several times before; I thought we've already gone past that stage.
I don't understand why there has been a change here. I would like to continue seeing her and sleeping with her but this behavior has me confused.
I personally don't think a girl with high IL will withhold sex with you but at the same time, she displays a lot of high IL behavior. So what's going on?
What are your thoughts? Should I bring this up to her? Or should I just move on?
We have had sex numerous times (but mostly in the beginning).
I assume she has high IL because she would always initiate and message me. And she is always keen when I ask her out. She is generally very compliant and excited to spend time with me. She buys me gifts. She tries to surprise me with things.
But something weird has been happening recently, she seems to avoid sex with me despite wanting to hang out with me as much as possible.
Recent times I've hung out with her and tried to initiate sex, she will refuse or come up with excuses. She is keen to initiate kisses, making out but has started to hold back on her sexual contact.
I get girls can get LMR and ASD but the thing is we have already slept together several times before; I thought we've already gone past that stage.
I don't understand why there has been a change here. I would like to continue seeing her and sleeping with her but this behavior has me confused.
I personally don't think a girl with high IL will withhold sex with you but at the same time, she displays a lot of high IL behavior. So what's going on?
What are your thoughts? Should I bring this up to her? Or should I just move on?