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The hardest part of swallowing the red pill back in the day (before online dating) was coming to terms with how many options women had.If she is over 21 I always assume she's dealing with other guys whether dating or just talking
I do not take online dating women seriously, in my experience, most women on apps are boring, socially awkward, unhinged, shady past, former party girls, ran through, delusional, entitled, etc
Even pretty women on apps can be very judgemental, uncouth, mean-spirited just nasty women. For me to take one seriously she has to make a genuine effort and meet my standards.
They have polls and graphs that show you now lol
You're basically fvcked as a man. The only thing that can save you is optimism
Confidence in yourself and the world in general.
You have to learn to be happy, first and foremost. Nobody wants to be around a Negative Nancy. And that includes family, work, friends, your online gaming buddies...
nobody likes a doomer
There are exercises that can make you a happier person: meditation, making a point of focusing on the the good, rather than the bad, having something to look forward to (i don't have many, i'm a negative person)
And learn that women are like children in their minds. You have to expect them to fvck up. And punish them gently, like children....
..unless they cross a line. Then you deal swiftly and remove them from your life. Never give them a second chance