I'm sorry for your loss. What type of paranormal are we talking about?
My dad was the most skeptical person I have ever met. He didnt believe in anything paranormal, at all.
One night, we were watching a tv series. No streaming yet, we were watching a good old dvd. There was a stack of dvd boxes next to the tv. All of a sudden, the dvd box on the top started levitating in place. It was just like 5 seconds more or less, then it went back to its place.
To be honest, Im not sure how I would have reacted if this had happened to me while I was alone or with someone else. I probably would have been freaked out or something. But at the time, I was GLAD this was happening in front of the most skeptical person I have met in my life.
I paused the tv. My dad asked:
- You saw that, didnt you?
- The dvd box levitating for a bit and going back to its place? Hell yeah I f0cking saw that!
My dad kept silence for a few seconds, thinking. Suddenly, he said
- Unpause the tv. Lets continue watching.
- Wtf. No, no, no. Explain to me what just happened.
- I dont know. There must be a scientific explanation, but I dont know it.
After that night, stuff happened to my dad at night. Maybe like once every 3-6 months. For example, he was trying to go to sleep and suddenly "someone" would pull his covers, or his feet, stuff like that. This stuff didnt happen only at home, if he went to a different continent on vacation, it would happen anyways.
He later died of cancer. Can you guess what happened to the paranormal stuff once he died? It stop happening. It kind of made me wonder if his illness was somehow related: Did he got ill because of the stuff that was happening, or did the stuff happened because he was going to die?